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The closest you'd come to a harem route for women would be introducing the swinger aspect to the couple I guess. For me it doesn't make sense for a woman to pursue a harem route simply because they generally view relationships and love differently than men. Where men often see multiple women as being able to meet their physical needs and pleasures, women tend to focus on the connection aspect of a relationship. They want to develop not just the physical aspect but also a connection of the heart/soul if you will. This isn't something you do with multiple people as the woman can often view that as cheating and a betrayal of the one they connect with.
You obviously never have met a polyamouras coven. I know three wiccan women handfasted into a trio. Of course it is only them but they are very very into each other and consider themselves as much married as a straight union or simple monogamous couple. Well they also consider themselves monogamous in a weird spiritual sense.
But you are right in that it is heavily relational over sexual for them and others I know in multi-unions. The women have to see themselves as belonging to each other as wives and more for it to last longer than a few months or couple of years.