It seems to me that it's not what people expect from the game and what kind of fetish they are interested in, but the fact that they lack basic patience!
Rudeness and accusations against L&P are caused precisely by a lack of patience, I think so.
I don't think it's fair, or accurate, in any way to accuse any regular member of this thread as "impatient". No one is demanding Sophia have sex in the next update, or even in the next Playable Day. As an extension, no one is asking for sex in the next year, even if updates were released quicker. Everyone here knows the deal, we know this is a slow burn and that it's geared more towards eroticism than pornography. Every single thread-regular knows this. Many of the regulars have played this game for years and some supported L&P on Patreon.
The point is, it is dismissive and reductive to brush aside criticism by accusing critics of being impatient. I don't think anyone who waits months for an update can fairly be accused of impatience.
Speaking for myself, I'm fine with the delay itself, my problem is purely in the communication. I've always figured we'd get the next update in late January. The holidays are crazy, and I don't have a problem with any dev taking time off to spend with family. If he had said that I wouldn't have commented at all.
But he didn't. He went off on a vague discussion about new hardware.
The fundamental question is this: do you think his announcement was satisfactory? If you think it was then there's really nothing for us to discuss because I can't fathom how anyone could find it anything but extremely unsatisfactory. I look at the devs I support on Patreon, and none communicate like L&P.
If you don't see his approach to communications as fundamentally poor, and if you aren't troubled by the patterns we're seeing, then we may as well just ignore one another. We're just too far apart on this issue and I don't think any amount of direct discussion will slide that gap. I hope we aren't that far apart.
You used the word "patience" to dismiss criticism, but I think the word you really should have used was "faith". You are clearly dedicated to this game and to L&P's vision of it. I suspect that you assume he's acting in good faith in every matter, so when her says he has something big planned you trust him. I don't share that faith.