Wow. The MC usually gets DIK points for secretly watching the girls. So according to your wording, the DIK's have no confidence because they are secretly watching. That was an own goal my good man.
Also, CHICK players can look at the girls tits and ass and not even secretly. My MC is always looking at Josy and Maya's tits and asses.
Blades1138 is partially right with what he writes. Arrogance is very sexy for many women, but only if there are values behind this arrogance. Those values are definitely not how many women a guy has fucked or how fast he can drink beer. So you're talking about a form of arrogance that has nothing to do with self-confidence.
Break down the word self-confidence. Self and confidence. This implies that a person knows themselves and can trust in themselves. The top DIK Tommy, can't even put his hand up for himself because he thinks he has his drug use under control, which is not the case when you see him sweating. Tommy doesn't thwart Caleb either. Where was his confidence then. Oh yeah, actually all the DIK's wanted to quit after the destruction of the Mansion. Where was their self-confidence so that they could get back on their feet under their own steam?