Nah, nothing to worry about there. The modern day Josy/MJ stans are just fine, easy to talk to and overall chill people.
Flowchart:
ChipLecsap gives you a facepalm,
dalli_x writes a theory on why you are wrong and how not main-ing CHICK affinity gives you less perspective on the finer threads of the narrative,
Darkwen has a laugh about it.
So overall, unlike some, Josy fans can take a joke in most cases(unless meme artwork gets 40+ reactions
).
Overall rule is: If a stan group can take a joke better than Jill can suck a dik, everything is fine