We're not in a math class. There are no absolutes here. What might be boring to one person in a game might be fun for another.
And that's why we're here. This game is so popular because of the detailed characters that are alive, not just pixels to jerk off to. The story, characters and emotions have created 15k pages of discussions here, and led the creator to success. Of course, this was based on the success of Acting Lessons, which gave it its initial fame, being a masterpiece.
Good sex is important for many people here, as for me it become secondary.
No idea how kinky you want it. Bella's scenes are less vanilla than 3/5 MGs. There won't be any extreme stuff in BaDIK, the game is aimed at a wide audience.
No one is forcing anyone to be a purist. There are different girls with different preferences in the game. 4 completely different in spirit routes of the main LIs + a bunch of third-party girls to choose from. You can want such content, your right. I want a scene with Elena, Zoey asap. I'm not demand. But you say it as if you demand it, accusing the developer of racism. This somehow reminds me of game journalists and crazy people from Reddit who demand DEI in games, otherwise - "racism". No, the developer is not obliged to follow the demands of the audience, the developer follows his vision.
Of course, buddy, you have the right to believe it.
Most AVNs are made in DAZ 3D. Despite the difficulties with animation, this engine is popular for its ease of learning and a huge library of ready-made assets in the store. Your statement here is incorrect. But of course, if you are comfortable blaming others for not liking the game... your right to do this
Yep, terrible person. Doesn't allow your fantasies to fully unfold, and not with the right character. Horrible.
You heard, guys, we're all a tasteless crowd here.

And when the developer's vision does not match yours, he becomes a talentless, pathetic milker who tries to make a pathetic coin.
Great vibe, buddy. But I'm afraid you can't do anything better to change it here on a pirate forum. I suggest you sign up for his Patreon for the minimum ($1) and get access to the DPC Discord where you can change things for the better by posting your great ideas on how to make the game better. DrPink Cake is a generous person who listens to the audience and he will welcome advice. It's just that no one has offered it to him before, 100% info. This is something you can do. DPC takes criticism easily and will never ban you for it.
We will be here keeping our finger on the pulse of your mission.