I think what has annoyed me most about it sure she has kept things from us but she is in no way obligated to tell us everything right away what would be the fun in that learning about her in one update secrets included people would end up losing interest in her if that was to happen.
Yep, it was more interesting in that "wham" way. Of course, it bothers people (and me too, from a RP POV) to have this thrown in the MC's face. But that's what make stories interesting. And not having an exposition dump on our head right from the start
Now we have plenty of way of resolving things (if DPC deliver, but I'm not too worried) :
be angry at both girls and ghost them, forgiving one and not the other, decide to be friends with both and help them be together, threesome (yeah, my non-pervert time is short), be with one of them and still mending our friendship.
That's the shit. That and finding the what and how of Bella's husband.
Also, helping Sage to feel better ; can't help it.