Part of why I say that is the amount of time that has passed by this stage. at this point she's known you what maybe 4-5 weeks at a push. been on one date with you.What do you mean? explain please, I have my opinion but i like to see others
now she is in a position of where she has been told your going to get sued/have charges pressed against you if she sees you again and then dispite that she plans a surprise for you. (someone arguebly barely friends with she's barely friends with and may not be if she weren't in to you)
who then tells her they can't go because they said they'd look after a sick friend.
but in her mind the only friends of yours she's met are the DIKs and Josy. so its not that much of a stretch that after you turning down a date with her (albeit to look after a friend) she decides to take the path of least resistance and stop making an effort to see you