I simply responded to what you said, logic to logic.
Compared to the rest of the cast, Jill is plenty normal. You can say that she's afraid or slow to open up, but from my perspective, she just know how to choose her friends (evidently so).
And just for the record, I never said any non-virgins = bad. I said she's a virgin to push another point and because it's also another good thing about Jill.
Well that's your opinion, I respect it, but I do not agree with it. And I think you chose poorly your word with this whole Jill is
"Normal" compared the other girls. Not only poorly chosen, but false too. Jill, is actually the least Normal, and mature , of all of the girl. Despite her being at least 21. if you fan of Jill and like her I assume you able to put the puzzle pieces about her life together. and if you think, that is the Normal way of how to grow up, well..... It is is your choice.
Jill, comes from a family that seem very old fashioned Aristocratic.from episode 7 flashback we get a glimpse of this , how her mother treated her and her sister. Seem like she has a very strict family, who suppressed any rebellions. Her sister rejected this life, rejected the ruling of parents, who are more than likely had a vision of their daughter life path. What you will be come , we deciding it, what is best for you. These type of parents she have. What lead to Lana death , we don't know yet, and how she died. But it is evident that, after her death, all burden was resting on Jill shoulder. and They raised her very strict. Which lead to a very immature, inexperienced Jill . Her piano playing is something that may decided for her by others. Evidence of this is, is her getting stress of being less than perfect , when its comes to the concert. -
"The composer who died 100 years ago would notice that I missed a few step. " - This is already not a
Normal behaviour btw, it is someone who is mentally pressured to be perfect.
Her Virginity is not something she hold because its sacred, although it's mixed with the sheltered fairy tale life style she living, but mostly because of the lack of experience. When, most of her Date, is arranged for her by her parents, it is natural, that She don't know what to do, because none of this is her choice, and more than likely , She felt nothing toward any of the guy, so, when She find someone she likes , she is afraid of being suck at it, because she does not have experience. - This whole thing is also as far from Normal as it can be
All the lack of life experience, despite her being 21, lead to the Tybalt scenario. She simply does not have any idea how to deal with this by her own. It is uncomfortable for her , but dont know how to deal with it, so She ask help from Bella. Who pointing out btw, that Jill need to find her own voice
so all the other girl who you compared her to. are actually way more Normal, than her. Because of all the life experience, that comes from growing up. Maya is may be the similar one, becasue she also supressed , but still, She at least try to do something by her own.
A Girl, like Jill, possible end up being in a very unhappy marriage, or she will cheat on her husband, because she will realize all the thing she was missing in her life.
That is why, is important someone like MC for her who open her eyes, and possible push her to be more livid. Help, her to gain experience, to face reality, otherwise, everything is already decided for her by somebody else.
If you think, this is what Normal, is, you have a very wrong way of seeing the world.
