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There that quote. “The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.”Are you sure Bella wants a divorce? I'm not sure at all, she has never had a really negative thought about her husband, on the contrary, the main feeling has been the lack of him. she forgives him and hopes he has forgiven her too. we don't even know if James has been guilty of a terrible fault or if it was an obligation to leave home (for work?).
to me, this does not seem to be the basis for a peaceful and uncontested divorce.
Should James show up at Bella's door, there will almost certainly be a moment of confusion and doubt. (of course, Bella is an LI so she would eventually choose MC, but the doubt would be there)
I don't deserve you, but in fact none of us do.
If he’s been gone this long it’s possible Bella has simply fallen entirely out of love with him. There’s no hatred or anger… just is what it is. No reason to speak badly of him.
I have always seen Bella’s arc not about her falling in love with the MC… or falling out of love with her husband but her “thawing” the Ice Queen. Whatever happened didn’t make her angry or upset it numbed her and in more recent episodes that’s starting to come undone. Her life is moving forward again.
I think the decision to divorce isn’t because her feelings or situation changed it’s because she’s realised it’s time to move on. She was stuck in place before. Not truly married but has no reason to divorce. His total absence didn’t give her any reason to push for a divorce and she had no guys she would need to be single for. So she did nothing. Just a holding pattern.
I think the divorce (at least from her end) would be amicable. James could kick up all kinds of a fuss but I think Bella has come to terms with her marriage being over and is ready to move on without any explosive drama.