This might end up lengthy, so TLDR; I am 100% in your corner dev!
The dev is impressing me with the openness to feedback. Too many other devs get butt hurt over feedback.
NTR thoughts: just stay away. I can't give percentages or estimations, but I CAN tell you how I do things. I use the advanced search functions to search for my fav kinks, and then there is a place to omit tags. NTR, trans, futa, scat, and censored are ALWAYS on the list to omit. So if you have NTR optional or NTR avoidable, I'll never see your game. At that point, it is just luck that I run across games with those tags.
I agree with the transparency comment. If you keep open channels of communication with your fan-base, you won't have many problems with people thinking your game is abandoned. BTW, you already seem to me like this won't be an issue.
This ties into the previous comment. Larger updates less frequent is better as long as you communicate. Generally speaking, I'm very forgiving when it comes to frequency of updates as long as the updates are substantial for the amount of time I've been waiting, but I'm also one of those weirdos that play a LOT of games at a time and just delete saves if I've forgotten the plot.
Since you've made a SubscribeStar (SS for short), make your game the way you want. Their censorship is relaxed compared to Patreon.
To expand on Antoon's post. I think having menu options is the optimal way to go for being able to disable kinks. The reason being is if you use first encounter dialogue boxes, then the player will know that something happened regarding that kink. Take for example sharing. I press "No" or "Disable sharing" dialogue box when MC and Mom are at uncle's house. That means I know that uncle slept with Mom and I slept with Auntie. Not a good implementation because that just pisses me off. I'm a greedy player and I get all the women all the time, and no other man will touch what I want. Whereas, if you use menu options to disable, players don't know context and continue to play blissfully unaware that there was a scene at uncle's house. Hell, you can make it so the menu for turning off kinks is shown right after the "Are you legal to consume porn where you reside?" screen or wherever you decide to put it. As long as players know it is there, you should be golden.
And last, but hopefully not least, I see what you're doing with the game and I'm all for it! I love the premise, models, and the direction it seems to be going. I am in your corner 100%!
P.S. I can't get to the club. I deny Mom money, but she disappears, and when I go to the street, there is no club option. I'm hoping that it will trigger later since I'm still on the first day.
