Game devs should always remember rule one. Complainers complain. If you pander to those complaining your game will be a disaster, there will be no originality and you will end up with a vanilla mess no one wants. That is a simple fact of life. Make the game you want, how you want. People will like it and follow or they wont. But when you pander to the complainers you wont be happy with your game and neither will anyone else. If you want lesbian, NTR or random orgies in the street, do it. We may not like it but we always have the option to not play. But guess what, those who do like tend to be silent in the back ground because they have nothing to complain about.
Yes, devs should do what they want, I've always been a big supporter of that mindset, however, they should make sure they are making a game in a genre that fits their vision of the game they want to make. There's nothing inherently wrong with making a harem game with slutty girls, most hardcore harem fans won't like the game but hardcore fans of anything are a minority, the issue is, in this game all women are presented as slutty and willing to sleep with anyone, even going as far (just one girl) to tell the mc that they love sleeping around, aren't going to stop, and (seemingly) make fun of the mc for being uncomfortable with that. The dev did say (When this discussion first kicked off with the first release) that the girls will eventually stop sleeping around, so in the grand scheme of things, all of this means nothing.
The issue arrives when you look at the game itself and the fanbase of harem games in general. The game portrays itself as a harem game. Fair enough, nothing disqualifies the game as being such, and it fits the definition, with the mc having many girlfriends. Harem fans, though, tend to be very strict with the content they want to view. Harem fans, except for a vocal minority, do not give a single fuck if the women in the harem are pure virgins or whatever, that's just a cope by people who want to smear the reputation of harem fans. They do, however, care about being shown sex scenes from non virgin members of the harem's past relationships. Its just not really a thing that goes well in a harem game either, a harem is focused on the main character. Is it vain? A power fantasy? Is the player self inserting into the MC? Sure, but that's the point, its fiction and that stuff exists because people want to see what they can't have in their real life. A harem fan will see a love interest's past sex scene with a different guy and think "Why, in a game made to shove women in MY face, am I seeing sex scenes of MY woman with another man? The effort to render and write the script of that scene could have been used to render and write a sex scene of her with ME, the focal point and entire reason of the game's existence" And then a disconnect happens between the community and the developer.
Lets talk more about this game in specific.
The game is billed as a harem game. Again that's fine, the game has the required elements to be called one.
The game starts attracting fans of the harem genre.
They start playing the game, and (When the game first released, not now) see at bare minimum, three sex scenes of future
and current love interests having sex with other men, and a grand total of zero sex scenes including the MC.
The big fallout happens and the game gets 10 pages of people complaining about the content with the expected flame war erupting.
The dev goes radio silent and refuses to talk on the thread, aside from sending DM's to a few people who report the responses to the thread.
Finally, after like two weeks of this, the dev clears up what people were asking about in his own words, in his own post, and vows to remove some of the scenes that were the most egregious.
EIGHT months later, almost a year, a new update is released, and this time there is an actual sex scene with the MC, an incredibly short one, that you need to choose the right option for
The game starts attracting harem fans again because it is tagged as harem. Some see the fallout on the first few pages and close the tab instantly, others play through and quit because there is nothing but scenes with other men, the same exact conversations and flame wars from 8 months ago fire right back up
The harem fans the game was hanging onto from the start are now spited because its another update with nothing for them, and almost a year later, there is only a single sex scene with the MC.
No matter what anyone thinks about the game's content, definitions of NTR, and the tastes of harem fans, it has to be acknowledged that the game's main playerbase is advertised towards harem fans, and the game at this point, does not cater to them in the slightest. That's okay, the dev should do what they want, its their game. However the dev is also asking for money for the game on patreon, you must remember that this is a pirate site, we get it for free because someone paid for the game and gave out the files. A harem fan isn't going to pay for this game, it just doesn't cover what a harem fan wants to see.
TLDR: The game is made for one group of people, but advertising itself to another group, who are known for being against the content the game does have.
If you would allow me to use a comparison I did in the past: Would you not expect someone developing a game for NTR fans to catch flak when the game has zero NTR scenes and instead is nothing but a harem where all of the women are perfectly loyal and would never cheat?
I'd like it to be known, like I said 8 months ago, this is not an NTR game, and I am not advocating for it to get the NTR tag, I am using NTR games as a comparison.