Rayne
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Of course, your analogy makes sense; knowing about communication and their relationship is important, but why do I need to know about their past sexual relationships if you should be focusing on the present? If you're interested in their past sexual experiences, then you'll be trying to adapt to the relationship based on that information. The question remains whether such a relationship is even necessary. And, frankly, I haven't encountered such a situation, and everyone will react differently, so it's difficult to reliably answer how things will unfold. Honestly, after rereading several pages in this thread, I think it's time for us all to stop arguing, otherwise the whole thread will turn into pure negativity. We can argue endlessly, but in the end, everyone will stick to their own opinion. Let's see what Dev does next.OK, let's continue with this analogy. Suppose this future/current girlfriend still interacts with her exes on daily basis. Or even interacts with them at all. Would you prefer to know there's this sort of history between them, or rather remain oblivious and have no idea of the real nature of their relationship?
I'd say that knowing such things can be important for building a relationship in the future, because it puts people's behavior in what's potentially very different context, compared to how an ignorant person may perceive it.
Peace to all.