I saw the game game engine was very broken some time ago, I imagine it had to do with your problem. The dev spent a lot of time fixing stuff and is already working on the next update, so probably the bugs are fixed by now.Last time I played this (a couple weeks ago), during sex scenes the npc would initiate a sex position but after they're done they would just eternally choke my character until I had to skip thru the encounter altogether. Is there a work around for that? Besides changing the goal weight for choking? I should add, I had mods installed as well but can't remember them well.
I don't know if the download links here are updated with the last bugfixes but you can get it in the github link in the first page of this thread