IIRC it's one of the fortuneteller relics, so it's random what order she tasks you with finding them and then there's a mission to do to get them. I think it's like 1 week between relic quests popping up, in the downtown district.
You're missing images / audio files. Make sure you've downloaded the complete version, or if you downloaded the update version you have the exact previous version already.
Are you using the 1.9 qsp player linked in the first post? Otherwise if (assuming you're on windows) you extracted into the defaul programs or windows folders that could be the issue. Windows generally doesn't like that, so try a different folder.
It's the new update, you now need to pay attention to your character's mood and keep it higher if you don't want to have the depression effects in the game.
Become friendly enough with him to game together, buy your own laptop, and eventually it'll come up when you play with him.
There exist plenty of sex options as male... They're mostly by going to the bar, where you can meet women.
