Nah, I didn't wear any of 'em (silver clothes). Avoided that at every opportunity, actually, until the game told me I had the final piece (wear 'em all!), thus the confusion. I wonder if there is a console command to add it in the inventory, similar to traits or kinks.
My trans protagonist feels plenty feminized, at least in my playthough. Lounge singer with a heart of gold, ass of steel, and a body to die for. If anything they should be praised for holding true to their ideal bod while getting flack from both camps, because they are both behaving like asshats most of the time, haha.
It's all good. If anything it inspires writing and scenarios elsewhere. It's always fun to check in on this game after a few months and see whatever wild path the dev has desired to travel.
Didn't know there was a charm spell in the game though, I'll have to check it out. The secretary storyline sounds interesting too. Thanks!
Edit: For anybody else that ended up in the odd situation I was in with the boots not being available despite finding 'em, I just ran this in the console cog exec thing and it was enough to make the boots available with the rest of the outfit:
owned_shoes[] = 132