I completely disagree.To be honest I think your storytelling ambitions are a little outside the scope of a porn game. The story is better than the content and I don't even like whatever genderbender fetish you've got going on. Who is playing this for the porn at this point? The gameplay is difficult and unrewarding and the adult content is basically just animated gifs. This whole thing is a mess and if you mange to tie it all together somehow I'll be impressed.
When you say you're into time loops, that suggests you're against preserving progress?
I think you've boxed yourself into thinking that if a game has adult content everything else is irrelevant. Some of the best written VNs have it.
Different people like different things. You don't even need to leave this thread to see that. People like the artwork or call it middling, think the narrative is good or non-existent, say that gameplay is unrewarding and frustrating or spend hours exploring and documenting the puzzles. I do admit I prefer an audience that is in it for the story or the exploration. They tend to be more lasting and well spoken. But saying the animations are just gifs is very reductive. Even if that was true, opposed to what? 3d DAZ goblin renders? Still CG images?
Some food for thought: what would happen if the game didn't have any adult material? Would you have played? Would you even know about it? There are thousands of better games with much more talented writers designers and programmers out there. Probably. I don't know because I haven't played them either. But I did play Fear & Hunger, Sequel and Black Souls. Adult content amplifies interest. At least for me.
Either way, since there are now people that are interested in my game for more than just porn, I must doing something right.