No worries, it happens. I've done the same myself. My point was that even though we have the final say if it happens or not, it is something that she wants to do regardless. Otherwise, it wouldn't be her first suggestion right off the top.
And I think the whole dom aspect kind of switches between the two. No one is really the sub or the dom. I mean heck, this whole thing started with Cindy taking the lead and pushing everything on the MC. Not because she wants to dom him, but because he is absolutely clueless about sex and women. Now that the MC is more familiar with their "games", he does take control quite often. But Cindy also takes control as well when she wants to (like with Penelope and Eustice). So, I think it's a nice middle ground and I hope it continues that way.