Ok, so this is what decides how many you can take. This is useful info, but unfortunately it doesn't actually answer my question. I will try to clarify.
Example 1: 1st week of the game (no rules passed) I raise Mia's Affection enough so that she will let me come for a home visit. I go to her house and click on "Confiscate some clothing", I pick two underwear, and she says no, but you're given the option to purchase them. (results are the same at all six of my starting girls but she is the one I'm using for this example). For clarity her stats are...Int 37 Dis 19 Aff 44 Fear 0 Nat 25 Cor 30...at the time.
Example 2: 4th week (pretty sure it has been working since the second week, but I don't have that save anymore)(Rules passed Week 1 Ban Lingerie, Week 2 Photo Club and the Associated HW Subject, Week 3 Forced Sockless, Outerless, and Enforce Uniform)
Mia's stats Int 26 Dis 38 Aff 68 Fear 24 Nat 67 Cor 100
I go to her house and click on "Confiscate some clothing", I pick two underwear, and she says "Fine, I barely wear those anyway." (there are some other lines that mean yes, but the gist is I get them uncontested)
My main question is what makes it were I can take them uncontested? A PTA Rule, Affection/Corruption/ect. at a certain level, or something else entirely?
Thanks again for taking the time.