It's actually kinda impressive how Observer can even make an apology condescending.
Kiyoko/Kinu:"I'm sorry I didn't tell you about the engagement of your own daughter before it was well and done."
PC:"Well, as long as you're so-"
Kiyoko/Kinu:"But you wouldn't have been able to do anything about it, you being an outsider and all (despite being married to the clan's leader and fathering the future leader and main family as well), so it wouldn't have mattered. Also we might decide other things without you so no promises on being told about future stuff either."
PC:"..."
Even when he's making up for the lack of engagement with the story he has to be a bitch about it.
Kiyoko/Kinu:"I'm sorry I didn't tell you about the engagement of your own daughter before it was well and done."
PC:"Well, as long as you're so-"
Kiyoko/Kinu:"But you wouldn't have been able to do anything about it, you being an outsider and all (despite being married to the clan's leader and fathering the future leader and main family as well), so it wouldn't have mattered. Also we might decide other things without you so no promises on being told about future stuff either."
PC:"..."
Even when he's making up for the lack of engagement with the story he has to be a bitch about it.