The situation between Inari Shojo and Kitsune Hime is their living standard.
Shoujo is a modest traditional Japanese woman while Hime is a playful rebellious against the old tradition.
For feudal Japanese society, a master of farming was always a welcome sight.
As long as people's stomachs are full, they can fight.
But as you see, Shoujo lacks versatility compared to Hime who is the master of all arts and diplomate.
[Japanese normally raise their daughter as someone bride, not some skilled master]
Let's hope the Inari shoujo can grow more versatility in another area as well.
*Komari is diligent but also a traditionalist who is faithfully loyal to her lady and their worship of god. That's why she likes Inari Shoujo who is diligent, etiquette the perfect waifu for the old traditional way.
Kiyoko is smart to form an alliance and play smart politics... So Hime is very smart and can entrust her with the burden of ruling over the den. But Inari isn't skilled in vast areas so she will need help from other people.
**So I think either Inari Shoujo or Kitsune Hime is quite okay for how PC expands his kin in the Kitsune's den.
- Kitsune Hime doesn't care, so she is okay about having numerous younger siblings. (She is the same as her mother)
- Inari Shoujo is awkward about having so many stepmothers (Some even the same age as her or possibly younger) and has too many sisters who have a huge age gap...But the more she grows she will accept the situation and needs help from her younger sisters to help lead the den. (I play a long pregnancy mode so I don't know if Rondo's child is a boy or a girl)
But to live in old Japanese feudal while worshiping a trickster as their god is quite a dilemma for Inari Shoujo for sure.