Konrad Simon

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And before someone is jumping in chiming „Doms don’t eat pussy“, yes we do. It’s my favorite reward for a good girl.
Completely ignoring the issue of what should or should not be in the game, this is a thing that has always fascinated me, because it so well illustrates how different doms (and, of course, subs) can be. I very happily munch some carpet with my vanilla lovers, but as a dom, it feels like performing a service, so I reserve it for the occasional tease scene. Other doms see it as a way of controlling the sub's pleasure (hence, controlling the sub) and so it is very much part being dominant.

And someone upstream seems to think that banter and wise-ass remarks from the sub means the dom is less dominant, whereas to others, like me, that is comfortable, intimate, and does not interfere with the level of control I have over that particular girl.

For someone above, blowjobs in game are meh, and pussy eating is exciting; for me, the opposite is true. A sub I know loves sucking cock more than almost anything else in real life, but in porn it just bores her.

No conclusions here, it just fascinates me how different we all are, and how very many ways there are to do this thing we do.
 

PaxHadrian17

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Cosy is creating an AVN that is story centered.

Sex, in its many forms, is a part of that story, but telling the story is - IMO - the most important aspect of Cosy Cafe.

Cosy gives us: unique characters who are not clones of each other, maintains those characters 'in character' while showing their growth as the story advances, and builds on not just the LI interactions with the MC, but also the LI's interactions with each other.

I enjoy the blowjobs, the spankings that are a bit of foreplay for some of the women, the anal play we just saw with Victoria and Akatsuki, and the sex at home and in/near public places.

I'm looking forward to the cunnilingus when it happens, and I am more interested in which two women will be enjoying each other that way versus which woman will receive from the MC.

This goes back to the story and the way the different women are developing as characters.

Most of the LIs have yet to give or receive their first oral - it is too soon for this to happen.

Out of the 11 current LIs - 5 have not even kissed the MC yet.

I'm looking forward to more of this great story and the evolution of the LIs and their relationships with both the MC and each other!

Cheers!! :coffee:
 

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Unpopular opinion apparently but I'm fine with a lack of cunnilingus. I've got some pretty bad sensory issues and eating pussy triggers them like heck, doesn't do much for me. I'd also be fine with less blowjobs too honestly, sperm belongs in the vagina not the throat.
i prefer fingering, it can be both a reward and torture at the same time
pretty sure Vicky would enjoy getting fingered till her peak and denied a climax
:devilish::devilish::devilish::devilish::devilish::devilish::devilish:
and yes, creampies are way to go
i just cant think a better place to fill even when my girl likes them for breakfast
 
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Konrad Simon

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Cosy is creating an AVN that is story centered.

Sex, in its many forms, is a part of that story, but telling the story is - IMO - the most important aspect of Cosy Cafe.

Cosy gives us: unique characters who are not clones of each other, maintains those characters 'in character' while showing their growth as the story advances, and builds on not just the LI interactions with the MC, but also the LI's interactions with each other.

Cheers!! :coffee:
Exactly this.
 
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kikomascado

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I don't mind much for cunnilingus, since in games you can't really see much. But I gotta say that one of my favorites scenes is Akatsuki blowing you while Lucy kiss you.
Hope there are more scenes like this, where you are intimate with two girls at the same time, the girls don't even need to touch each other (though it would be a welcome addition).
 

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Honestly, if given a choice of course it's creampie.
I usually say if there is a choice there isn't a choice. In the mouth is second place to creampie.
Backshots do nothing for me. A good old bukkake has it's place. Not really in a MC gets all the girls story though. So many better options.
A facial for a girl with an attitude is good though.
 

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Regarding the Dom/Sub "discussion" of what is Dom and what not. I would say it depends largely on the people involved, the intentions, and the mindset.

What is Vanilla BDSM? BDSM is never ever be vanilla. But there are softer and less soft actions possible. Even understanding of BDSM might differ from person to person drastically. Ask a male Sub, ask a female sub, and the dominant other, and you get at least 4 versions of the same truth. Ask more People and you will get more versions, some are alike, some not. Is there the best way? No, never. The only way is the right way for all people involved.

In my BDSM bubble, the choker for a sub, is a sign or trophy and the right to wear it as a sub has to be earned. But i know of other communities where it is a mere sign of submission. Only a small non-sexual difference. But it shows how different things are viewed.

The only consent I make regarding porn games, real rape will never be part of the BDSM, even if a lot (not Cosy so) Game Devs seem not to differentiate between Rape and BDSM. Sadly. However, the one and only rule that never shall be broken is consent.

And if you think spanking could be a vanilla kind of BDSM, I know of one case of bare hand spanking that ended in hospital... funny it wasn't for the sub, but the Dom broke his wrist while spanking. But if funny story aside, if you use a flogger and do not know how to use it, it can be very dangerous. The same goes for bondage and so many other themes in the BDSM connotation. Even a seasoned vet in this sexual play style can be wrong and make a hurtful and or costly mistake.

After the Consent Point, one of the most underestimated but highly recommended things by vet in BDSM is, if you dive in this as a couple, you have to: Talk Talk Talk! Make sure to understand each other. And listing to your sub (male or female) does not make you a bad Dom. A real Dom is not only Dominant and spanks his sub, or does things shown in games/porn but cares about the wellbeing of his sub.
 

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Regarding the Dom/Sub "discussion" of what is Dom and what not. I would say it depends largely on the people involved, the intentions, and the mindset.

What is Vanilla BDSM? BDSM is never ever be vanilla. But there are softer and less soft actions possible. Even understanding of BDSM might differ from person to person drastically. Ask a male Sub, ask a female sub, and the dominant other, and you get at least 4 versions of the same truth. Ask more People and you will get more versions, some are alike, some not. Is there the best way? No, never. The only way is the right way for all people involved.

In my BDSM bubble, the choker for a sub, is a sign or trophy and the right to wear it as a sub has to be earned. But i know of other communities where it is a mere sign of submission. Only a small non-sexual difference. But it shows how different things are viewed.

The only consent I make regarding porn games, real rape will never be part of the BDSM, even if a lot (not Cosy so) Game Devs seem not to differentiate between Rape and BDSM. Sadly. However, the one and only rule that never shall be broken is consent.

And if you think spanking could be a vanilla kind of BDSM, I know of one case of bare hand spanking that ended in hospital... funny it wasn't for the sub, but the Dom broke his wrist while spanking. But if funny story aside, if you use a flogger and do not know how to use it, it can be very dangerous. The same goes for bondage and so many other themes in the BDSM connotation. Even a seasoned vet in this sexual play style can be wrong and make a hurtful and or costly mistake.

After the Consent Point, one of the most underestimated but highly recommended things by vet in BDSM is, if you dive in this as a couple, you have to: Talk Talk Talk! Make sure to understand each other. And listing to your sub (male or female) does not make you a bad Dom. A real Dom is not only Dominant and spanks his sub, or does things shown in games/porn but cares about the wellbeing of his sub.
Indeed. The consent as in Cosy is so important. Unlike most femdom games, where the submissive role is nearly always forced to an extend that it would be considered real bad incel fantasys if the gender roles would be reversed.
 

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Hey guys, welcome to dev log 42.

I've had a very productive couple of weeks once again, with my efforts being split between a few different tasks this time.

First, the UI work that I showed you in the last dev log is now complete, with all of the bugs (hopefully) ironed out. Unfortunately, I've discovered that old saves will probably stop working. I spent a good amount of time trying to remedy this issue, but it seems that it's not actually being cause by the new UI, rather it's a consequence of updating the version of ren'py the game runs on, so there's nothing I can do about it I'm afraid. Fortunately, with the nature of Cosy Cafe being a linear story, it probably shouldn't matter much, as you can simply skip to any update from the start, but I just wanted to let you all know that it's coming.

Next, I spent a lot of time working on a new map. As you can probably tell in the images attached to this post, it's the back of the cafe! That should be all of the map work needed for this update, but I wanted to really get it right, as it will feature heavily in a lot of future content.

Finally, I have, of course, been rendering. I've finished another 250 renders, including some very time consuming and technically challenging ones - believe it or not, setting up and posing the painting render attached took over 45 minutes, and I've had to do dozens like that this update! Fortunately, I've mostly finished with that now, and the rest of the rendering for this update should be pretty straightforward.

So, with all of that being said, and most of the more technical aspects of the update out of the way, I'm finally in a position where I think I can estimate a release date:- Mid December. Of course, as usual, if unforeseen issues crop up it may flex a bit, but knowing what I have left to do, I think that should be very doable.

As always, I'll speak to you all in a couple of weeks, though I probably won't have much more to report than "I'm still alive, and I'm still grinding through the renders!" - so until then, thank you all for your support!

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having to start over doesnt bother me none, ive replayed this about a half dozen times since i found it earlier this year, Cosy Creator
Same, I was planning on replaying just before the release again anyhow. So now I just have to wait till the update and do it then. Don't see an issue here. But that's for me. I know a lot will complain about it, however for my favorite games I always replay beforehand even if it's the 10th time playing it. Cosy Cafe is in my top 3 so replay are a given for me.
 
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