That's one reason I like this game. If you block the "Wandering Hands" and "Bad Situations", everything in the game is consensual, even if the sex partner once chosen and decided on, can be a little rough.
My only problem with the dominant sex partners is, the AI is so wish washy. Stop changing positions every other second, and let's have sex already. I had one partner who couldn't figure out where they wanted me, and if I clicked Do Nothing, they constantly changed position every turn, making the whole thing kind of confusing and awkward. In my mind's eye, I was thinking, this guy must think he is some pornstar, and he has to do acrobatics or something. Just get in Missionary and go at it already. Also, his comments were he wants this and he wants that, but he kept changing positions so he could never get that.