Thanks!If you just want to change the gender of a male to female, I'd recommend console. Here's an example for a character named Agustin Bean:
V.people["Agustin Bean"].species[1] = "female"
Just replace the name with the name of the targeted character and you're good to go. If you changed the name of one of the characters via character customization you need to use their original name.
The 2 characters you mentioned are special characters that always generate male, so it won't work via world generation unless you fiddle with the code. Some of the story events might not make too much sense with them being female.
To add to that, the masturbation scene can occur on weekend mornings when you wake up and I'm pretty sure I've only gotten the shower scene on weekend morning exclusively as well. You also need to cum in the masturbation scene to progress the event chain.
My goal is to get the NPC (who for whatever reason is treated as the leader of the E-Sports team) to be either female or at least trans female, so you say I need to do that via the console while playing (so probably after meeting that NPC for the first time), right? Asking cause there were some other things about sports team genders and whatnot that would have to be done before starting the game world. Ngl the sports team stuff has been kinda annoying so far, seems very railroaded and unfriendly towards peoples' settings.
Which console, btw? Sugar.Cube?