Generally speaking, why do people play grand theft auto? They dont really want to go round shooting people and robbing banks do they? Its fantasy, something different, escapism from the normal they experience in life. You overthink it to much and people get way to invested in thier pixel girlfriends.
I love NTR games iu love incest games. Doesnt mean i wanna fuck my sister or watch the neighbour do my girlfriend, or maybe i do who knows haha. The point is thats not reality. Most of us live normal lives and games allow us to experience and try new and different things without the consequences of real life which circles back to my point about Grand Theft Auto. Im sure the thought of going out and shooting people is quite disturbing to most but they still play games where they do it. People just wanna experience different things.
hahahah it's not the same thing... instead say you're playing GTA and a player kills your girlfriends, your family, your friends... it's pretty much the same but still not... when it comes to love and sex, it's a notch worse