I'm Ukrainian, and I live in one of the most "bombed" major ukrainian city. Since the start of the war, I "missed" less than 10 work days. Same for all my friends and relatives who stayed here. Almost no one goes to bomb shelters anymore, because it's worse than useless.
Well, i see the point. Maybe my takes were overexaggerated to some degree. What i tried to say is that there is a difference in living in a state of peace and in a state of war, even if you don't really see the "war" itself. I'm a clinical psychologist and i have clients from Ukraine. Some of them are in so poor mental state even now that they are, pretty much, in need of psychiatrist not just psychologist. Some people handle pressure very well, others don't. I can respect that you are diligent towards your job, i respect it because i'm hardworking person myself, but not everybody is the same. And it's just mental aspect, there are other stuff like infrastructure issues, which were mentioned above, and so on and so forth.
It's just imo you can't say that if the person doesn't see our army on the streets he has to proceed to his duties like nothing has ever happened.
P.S. Sorry about the "western people" thing, i didn't want to insult anybody based on their living location. I just was so irritated that i went too far.