I don't. My desire to fap is equivocal to my desire to win so either way it'll feel like I'm losing 50% of my goal 100% of the time (if that made sense)
It's like, if a game's mechanics run deeper than clicking, if I can jump, run, shoot (etc) then I'm gonna want to win the game even if I don't get any H scenes. The problem is, What's the point of playing an H game if you don't get any H scenes?
On the flip side, If intentionally lose, I'll never progress the game in a satisfying manner. I'll force myself to progress to get to the next area or what have you, lose, unlock another scene, then begrudgingly proceed to the next area repeating this until I've beaten the game.
I could unlock every scene first and THEN use the scene gallery (if any) to fully enjoy the scenes, but given the amount of effort it would take to do that, I may as well fire up Hollow Knight and get a better sense of accomplishment or play an H game where I don't have to lose to get the goods.