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Well, I've not got a big dick, I'm in the C/D camp but I love foreplay and the ladies I've been with appreciate that quite a lot. So really you can have any size dick as long as you can cater to your partners needs, unless of course they need a dick like a Pringles can. Then you're probably shit out of luck.
Back when I was in college I dated a cougar for a while, she taught me more in the couple of months we were together than I ever learnt from any of the relationships I was in before her.
One of the first lessons she taught me was: "Every guy worries too much about his cock, is it too short, too soft, why doesn't it last longer etc etc. They put too much focus on their cock, it becomes a source of so much anxiety and it leads to men who fail to perform all that well in the bedroom regardless of their size or potency. So every guy should learn to please a woman without it, make a girl cum using everything BUT their cock, once you can do that all the pressure and worry goes away."
She was right, it's something I've carried with me in every relationship since. Now I can confidently say that none of my exs has left me because I failed in the bedroom, it's because I'm a horrible human being.
One of the first lessons she taught me was: "Every guy worries too much about his cock, is it too short, too soft, why doesn't it last longer etc etc. They put too much focus on their cock, it becomes a source of so much anxiety and it leads to men who fail to perform all that well in the bedroom regardless of their size or potency. So every guy should learn to please a woman without it, make a girl cum using everything BUT their cock, once you can do that all the pressure and worry goes away."
She was right, it's something I've carried with me in every relationship since. Now I can confidently say that none of my exs has left me because I failed in the bedroom, it's because I'm a horrible human being.
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I been with some girls that just laid there like a dead fish and I couldent get off, Its all in the motion of the ocean fellas
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This chart is a lie for one an only reason : It don't take in count the fact that vagina size vary as much as penis size.
It's less important since the size will adapt to the intruder. If they can give birth to a child, they can take a penis whatever its size, but it doesn't mean that it's enjoyable and/or comfortable for them. Take a penis under the average size, a girl with a small tight vagina will have more pleasure with it, than a girl with a big loose vagina. In the same way, a bigger penis can feel uncomfortable for the first girl, while still being enjoyable for the second one.
To this, I'll add that around 20% to 25% of women have an inverted uterus which can lead to pain if the penis goes too far inside. So for them, a smaller penis will feel way better than a longer one.
There's a chart somewhere (can't take my hands on it) with more legit information since the numbers are relative one to the other. I mean, it's not about the size, but about the difference between the length and girth. In short, it display the percent of girls that can find your penis enjoyable according to its proportions.
In fact, this chart seem to be made by and for sex toy manufacturers. Then it make sense that the "optimal length" is bigger than the average penis length ; it's the place for the hand that will move it.
It's less important since the size will adapt to the intruder. If they can give birth to a child, they can take a penis whatever its size, but it doesn't mean that it's enjoyable and/or comfortable for them. Take a penis under the average size, a girl with a small tight vagina will have more pleasure with it, than a girl with a big loose vagina. In the same way, a bigger penis can feel uncomfortable for the first girl, while still being enjoyable for the second one.
To this, I'll add that around 20% to 25% of women have an inverted uterus which can lead to pain if the penis goes too far inside. So for them, a smaller penis will feel way better than a longer one.
There's a chart somewhere (can't take my hands on it) with more legit information since the numbers are relative one to the other. I mean, it's not about the size, but about the difference between the length and girth. In short, it display the percent of girls that can find your penis enjoyable according to its proportions.
In fact, this chart seem to be made by and for sex toy manufacturers. Then it make sense that the "optimal length" is bigger than the average penis length ; it's the place for the hand that will move it.
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Actually the whole concept of Size of Male girth is not really considered by women at all. Sure having a Big one does help ur chances with a girl. But women don't really care about it that much. Besides an average Dick is 5.1 inches and an average length of a vagina is 3.4 inches. Do the math, As long are u are in average or above. U are gonna hit a women's sweet spot. So it really doesn't matter. Size doesn't really matter(unless she is a total whore) , The only thing that matter is how long u can keep going. Compensate for ur length with time. Its all about skills. I am 'A' Btw.
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it will also explain why there is soo many different sizes of dildos... and the most popular ones is the small ones and not the ones modeled on horses... most of these charts and studies is funded by companies that sell things like penis pumps or enhancement pills and the list goes on.... but if anyone wants to take on these charts and studies like if they was fact then they should also take in consideration the study done on women (i think it was funded by the company that sold "female viagra") said that over 90% of women suffer from some type of sexual dysfunction that prevent them from having a healthy orgasm.....
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No, I think he meant as a reason that there aren't many women commenting on the subject. As he's saying that women don't worry about it as much as men.
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If that`s the case, i meant that more like a tease. I usually don`t talk seriously when i comment on a porn games site.
Or, they just enjoy watching men scramble to over-compensate or self-justify.
While charts can be subjective, they are generally averages, and any mass scale is based on generalizations and averages. Could you image the chart that has the actual sodium pentothol induced responses from every living woman?
Anyways, why are men so eager to comment on what women think about penis size, since no one claim to value spincterization in the equation.
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I talk seriously all the time, except in real life. Where I can't actually hold a conversation.