Does anyone know a game like this whit to many hours gameplay and romance
As another comment said 'Fire Emblem, specifically Fire Emblem Awakening and a small maybe Fire Emblem Fates(because while the romance is to my liking, the story is not)'. Maybe other series to your liking if you prefer non-time travelling shenanigans.
But if you ask me what's the best? Its Rune Factory 4
. Followed by its series and Harvest Moon series, also not forgetting Stardew Valley (which can be modded, so there mayyyyy be a 18+ content out there... I mean you can ride Pam as a horse
).
You can also wishlist War of Ashird in your wishlist on Steam. It was on kickstarter May 2020 and while I have no idea when they are gonna finish them, the monthly update is consistent and the content balancing/revising/adding is fun enough to look forward to. Don't expect anything though, it has been in development since July 2020 so it might take another 4 year for all I know.
And since the comment below me added Azure Dreams which is from PS1, might I also recommend Mana Khemia from PS2 (and later port-to PSP). Fun gameplay if you ever play atelier series, it pretty much the same (not as polished, but fun enough for its time). There wasn't much romance unless you pursue the catgirl but the ending with her is 5/5 wholesome). The sequel wasn't worth it in my opinion. The female MC is interesting, but the male MC wasn't so interesting. Just like Mana Khemia MC now that I think about it, he wasn't really interesting... but his revelancy to the plot and his friends is fun to be around.