I think you exaggerate, if that patreon paid for a lesbi domination scene you wouldve had lesbian domination scene. But he requested NTR , he couldnt give a rats ass about you all wanting.
What you are wrong is that you like many here use a simple mindset Ntr fans and non ntr fans... there are many more shades than that. And lemme say it to you , the vast majority are neither , they dont necessary want NTR but at the same time dont care about it (especially bonus hidden content). The problem is only those 2 factions are vocal here.
And in my opinion the dev did good to do requested scenes. Its money that keeps the game running and trust me no butthurt ntr hater here has ever contributed to this game (if at all ) with that much money. So having freeloader fans is a waste, we like to think f95 people matter but they dont and shouldnt matter (some suggestions or bug reports can be taken from it , but trust me this community is toxic and ruin the game potential if it is listened to - aka Altered destiny, the war with Intertwined dev etc). The point of this community is 1.to share free games between them cause no one can pay for all of them and 2.to advertise the games so they will gather patreons or potential future buyers. Simple as that.