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I understand where you come from and what you mean. And I see Dorfnutter 's point, too. I'm just saying that she can be waiting for the right man to open to, and be emotionally unavailable, and still have sex.See Dorfnutter's post just above, maybe he expressed it better.
Of course you can have casual sex without any emotional baggage or whatever. But probably not for your first time. Even if so, I'm not saying there'd be anything wrong with that, I just don't think picking up a random dude and letting him deflower her fits Alex' character. If she lost her virginity before Orion, I'm totally fine with that, my guess is just she didn't.
You also don't need to be promiscuous to have sex without being emotionally intimate, either. You can have a boyfriend, and still be emotionally closed to him.
Though I understand neither of you were making the point that she has to be either a virgin or promiscuous. I'm just saying it as an addendum, not aimed at your points.