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[WattsFU]

OMFG i wanna lick her so bad! =O

 

[Rosvos86]

There are some that generate images while talking, candy.ai does that for example. I just asked "her" to send me one to see how it works:
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Man I was having a good time until I got cucked by the paid subscription plan! No free shit for us...

 

[Mister_M]

Man I was having a good time until I got cucked by the paid subscription plan! No free shit for us...

Yeah, all nsfw chat AIs have paid subscriptions and have strict limits of free msgs afaik. It's still cheaper than chats with real dommes tho Although with real dommes you have real people, voice, video and you can ask for Her items, so maybe both approaches are equal somehow? Although for the amount you need to pay for online domming you can find dommes IRL.

 

[FemDom Fables Studios]

Yeah, all nsfw chat AIs have paid subscriptions and have strict limits of free msgs afaik. It's still cheaper than chats with real dommes tho Although with real dommes you have real people, voice, video and you can ask for Her items, so maybe both approaches are equal somehow? Although for the amount you need to pay for online domming you can find dommes IRL.

Is online domming safe? I would be concerned about the potential blackmail.

 

[Mister_M]

Is online domming safe? I would be concerned about the potential blackmail.

Yeah, it happens, but there are more established dommes that won't scam you. Checking opinions on forums (femdom empire is pretty ok) definitely helps. On Twitter there's quite a bunch of verified dommes, but usually these are pretty expensive. Idk about your country, but here we have these eBay like pages where dommes are selling their used socks (the more you pay, the longer they wear them, train in them, etc. and record that), panties, even tampons, used toilet paper, urine, saliva and so on, but also online domming sessions. These are pretty safe as everything is rated by the users, the page gives refunds if something's wrong and breaking the rules results in a ban.

Personally I had only 2 online sessions, but these were with a domme I befriended, so they were for free. Also, if you're active on Discord there are many femdom servers with usually amateur dommes, but still pretty ok. If you have time to talk, mingle with the community, beg, etc. you can ask them for sessions too; finding someone to dom you like that for free is not uncommon, tho requires more effort than just simply paying for the session.

Edit: As far as your safety is concerned, well, don't give your personal info and don't show your face, although pro-dommes have a high level of professionalism and gaining (and keeping) the trust of their clients is part of their business.

 

[bulifun]

damn those ai looking kinda juicy but I also got cockblocked by these paywalls, very unfortunate indeed

 

[fucoff]

Is online domming safe? I would be concerned about the potential blackmail.

Online is not safe. It's full of imposters and scam artists. Most dominant women HATE findom for all of this shit. Keep in mind real dominant women are a minority of a minority. Go join your local S&M club in real life. You will find what you want. Do not go deeper than you can handle or jump head first into the deep end. Don't pay an online scam artist who doesn't even understand the basics of bdsm. Do not visit a 'prodom' as often they don't know what they are doing and can pose a real danger to you because they don't know how to do kink safely (biggest red flag is they aren't associated or known in the community)

 

[Mister_M]

To be honest I think findom is ruining femdom - you get into any femdom server, even the one that bans findommes, and you get swamped with findom requests in your dms, all scams of course - but nowadays even the biggest dommes are into findom: Astro Domina, Goddess Alessa, Dommelia, Divine Goddess Jessica, almost all if not all really big pro dommes are findomming hard, it's a tad too much imo. And that prompts a lot of scammers to abuse findom. Local clubs, or finding parties and people via Fetlife seems the best choice, but you still can meet from time to time dommes who will do stuff online without findomming, even if usually it's just sending tasks. Unfortunately in my region BDSM scene doesn't exist so there's nothing local here, travelling to bigger cities is the only option, but then it's for the session with pro domme (who's also into findom most likely).

 

[jasonfz250]

To be honest I think findom is ruining femdom - you get into any femdom server, even the one that bans findommes, and you get swamped with findom requests in your dms, all scams of course - but nowadays even the biggest dommes are into findom: Astro Domina, Goddess Alessa, Dommelia, Divine Goddess Jessica, almost all if not all really big pro dommes are findomming hard, it's a tad too much imo. And that prompts a lot of scammers to abuse findom. Local clubs, or finding parties and people via Fetlife seems the best choice, but you still can meet from time to time dommes who will do stuff online without findomming, even if usually it's just sending tasks. Unfortunately in my region BDSM scene doesn't exist so there's nothing local here, travelling to bigger cities is the only option, but then it's for the session with pro domme (who's also into findom most likely).

Not surprising that the majority of them are now mainly doing findom. Why do more for less? When you can do less for more. They are probably raking in big cash from doing findom, while also doing much less work. Also in your earlier post, Wanted to mention that Onlyfans is also a pretty good source for online domming. Especially if you find a model that just started, or doesn't have many subs in general. They also tend to be much more negotiable and cheaper since they-like i said either started, or don't get much activity. They obviously won't be as good as a "professional online domme" But something about a normal Of model dominating me specifically. While most likely being submissive towards her other subscribers made it much more exciting for me personally.

 

[Mister_M]

Not surprising that the majority of them are now mainly doing findom. Why do more for less? When you can do less for more. They are probably raking in big cash from doing findom, while also doing much less work.

I understand their motives, I just don't like them And I'm not saying they should be free, but online femdom or even sending dms are nowadays more expensive than IRL session with a medium tier in terms of costs, but still very good domme. But as long as there will be guys sending them money for a few words of degradation or pixelated pics findom's gonna thrive.

And I never used OF tbh, just torrented some vids from Femdom Empire.

 

[Nikociant]

Best AI chatbot is kobold.cpp with llama2 model + tavernai or sillytavern, but you need a good pc for it
also^^

(my experiments with SD)

 

[Z - Reborn]

I understand their motives, I just don't like them And I'm not saying they should be free, but online femdom or even sending dms are nowadays more expensive than IRL session with a medium tier in terms of costs, but still very good domme. But as long as there will be guys sending them money for a few words of degradation or pixelated pics findom's gonna thrive.

And I never used OF tbh, just torrented some vids from Femdom Empire.

In my humble opinion findom should be considered abuse of mentally weakened people and therefore illegal. My .02.

 

[Huurn]

In my humble opinion findom should be considered abuse of mentally weakened people and therefore illegal. My .02.

It's very easy to condemn findom when you're not into it. Not saying it is not more often abuse than a consensual kink thing. But that does not mean that findom is not a real thing for some people.

 

[Z - Reborn]

It's very easy to condemn findom when you're not into it. Not saying it is not more often abuse than a consensual kink thing. But that does not mean that findom is not a real thing for some people.

So is any other kind of addiction (smoking, drinking, gambling...), and yet we as a society see and accept it as what it is: a disease that can lead to the destruction of lives.

But alas can't condemn anything related to sex because kink shaming is a big no-no lately and promiscuity is empowering... somehow.

 

[Huurn]

So is any other kind of addiction (smoking, drinking, gambling...), and yet we as a society see and accept it as what it is: a disease that can lead to the destruction of lives.

But alas can't condemn anything related to sex because kink shaming is a big no-no lately and promiscuity is empowering... somehow.

I have a very different perspective. Let's just leave it at that.

 

[repesorsa]

So is any other kind of addiction (smoking, drinking, gambling...), and yet we as a society see and accept it as what it is: a disease that can lead to the destruction of lives.

But alas can't condemn anything related to sex because kink shaming is a big no-no lately and promiscuity is empowering... somehow.

All of those things you mentioned can be done in moderation, in which case we as a society do not see them as a disease that always leads to the destruction of lives. Why do you think findom is different in that it supposedly always crosses the line into addiction?

 

[S3ri4l]

In my humble opinion findom should be considered abuse of mentally weakened people and therefore illegal. My .02.

A dangerous kink indeed. It's full of those scammy profiles made with AI, and they can be reached from people all over the world, so it will only increase.

 

[Z - Reborn]

All of those things you mentioned can be done in moderation, in which case we as a society do not see them as a disease that always leads to the destruction of lives. Why do you think findom is different in that it supposedly always crosses the line into addiction?

Never said that it always does, but there should be massive societal alarms ringing when, for example, the findomme is not in a permanent relationship with the paypig (or whatever they are called), or when she divorces after long periods of partaking in it.

 

[Tom Aspinall]

So is any other kind of addiction (smoking, drinking, gambling...), and yet we as a society see and accept it as what it is: a disease that can lead to the destruction of lives.

But alas can't condemn anything related to sex because kink shaming is a big no-no lately and promiscuity is empowering... somehow.

You said it yourself, you don't want to condemn it, you want it to be illegal, those are very different.

I can assure you, a man who gets caught giving his money to some twitter thot isn't gonna be seen in a positive light, and some of these dudes are actually married. Can you imagine?

 

[dea667a]

To the previous discussion, I tried the crushon.ai and the 50 messages free was not enough, if they offered 100 I would probably subscribe. The bot was solid, remembered details, could stay in the discussion, it was a solid experience. But short.

Now I am trying the free version of spicychat.ai and ... it is worse than the above crushon. But not by much. The bots can "forget" the previous themes (e.g. you teleport in space and time from a shop to a bedroom), they can "forget" even the previous settings and toys (tbh that happened to the crushon where I was asked a question while having a gag in mouth, was weird considering the limit on free messages). And the bot often confuses sexes, which is sometimes a little annoying. There is also quite limitted amount of characters for a message so often the messages simply end with a coma in the middle of a sentence (unless they expect me to continue, hmmm... maybe that is it )

Anyway, I tried some bots for femdom and HOLY MOLY! From multiple interactions there have been some forceful interactions. The last one simply drugged me and announced to me that I am her sex slave now and I should be happy. And while this is not everybodys cup of tea(not even mine), I love the fact there are no restrictions. If there are any, I havent found them.

The one more annoying thing is, that the bot sometimes ends in a loop. e.g. it replies with "now wait here for me, I will be back slowly", I reply with "waiting", bot replies with "wait for me", "waiting", "wait for me", "waiting" ... sometimes you simply need to break the loop and decide what comes next otherwise it will be endless. Which is not fine if you want to be submissive and dominated

All in all, I have my fun with this chat. They even let me build my own chatbot. Which drugged and raped me, kinda makes me think I should stay with programming networking software and dont look at the machine learning