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NeoKilua

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So, I tried Uni, but I couldn't find anything that looked like a femdom path. How do you get it? The game was gaslighty and seems slanted to sadistic maledom against the protagonist too, btw, so I'm not sure I should try it again.


That you could find those in vanilla games, though good luck finding ass licking and facesitting in them, doesn't mean there's no difference between a vanilla version and a gentle femdom version of those kinks.


Any kind of bondage that isn't sadistic can be part of gentle femdom. It just has to be gentle, the hint is in the name.
There plenty maybe u couldn't find it in vanilla but i did again those thing a fall under again the same stuff i mentioned.

u can do all that without the need for bondage or bdsm and these arnt classified as gentle femdom it only the character that makes it that.
It can be gentle but most is not esp if it the equippment by itself.

You can do same thing with roleplay which can be vanilla
 

obiruto

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Femdom stuff is exclusively tied to Violet. Don't take the bakery job (Bimbofication). Don't give in to Matt. Don't start stuff with anyone else like Kate or bullied dude. Weekend club doesn't matter.
You can either be Violet's domme or sub depending on the telegraphed choices.
It's not much, maybe 4 or 5 scenes and they mirror each other (as in either you domme her or she dommes you in the same situations). I didn't find them that memorable or hot tbh.
Woaw, thank you so much for the heads up. Violet's path is actually so hot. I'm not usually into lezdom too much but this was so unexpectedly hot for me. :)
 

Achelexus

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Tbh it almost a waste of time asking for game that femdom focoused and not hardcore or humuliation more than 90 percent is this so you limiting it.

The most popular is this femdom

Gentle femdom isn't as popular and is heavily limited.

If you mostly want what you said it be better to search games that have femdom in it but isn't femdom focused

When limiting fetishes to you realize the lack of content you get to play cause most content will be hardcore outside of facesitting pussylicking and asslicking etc.

You can Also say gentle femdom and vanilla is the same.
facesitting and such aren't necessarily about humiliation and abuse, tho
and even in humiliation/abuse, there might be a genuine loving connection between the characters (like an arguably abusive relationship where there's still love/romance involved)
 
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Rennie245

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Are there femdom games more focused on romantic stuff? Like, no abuse or humiliation, the female characters actually love the MC.
I'd recommend trying out Love sex and second base and going for dominant sasha, they have a pretty normal relationship outside of the fucking.

Hellfire club dom Daisy route is also pretty good if you are ok whit crossdressing, their relationship is to portrait a normal couple to the rest of the world but when you're alone whit her the MC is her pretty princess.
 

subwien

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No it not insane take what the diffrence if you takeaway the words what scenes dont u have that can't be done in vanilla that is gentle Femdom
you relize u can get those scenes without femdom right?
Pussy licking facesitting ass licking u can get in vanilla games without it being femdom and they count as body worship

Or do you not know that you probably dont

And no handcuffs and bondage dont count as gentle femdom so i ask what diffrence

From gentle femdom and vanilla without the words used
I kinda agree and also not agree to that.
There is no specific "line" inbetween vanilla and femdom if you want to put it that way. So its a sometimes yes that depends.
But can also not be true, because what is vanilla then, as you also rightfully asked with some examples, like handcuffs?
I know people who would say that ass licking isnt vanilla, but i also know persons who would say handcuffs are femdom/dom.

To make this topic short, because i dont think that we may find a definitive awnser that would fit all:
I would say it depends on each personal perspective, or should i better say, what one would say is vanilla and what not.

tldr: " You can Also say gentle femdom and vanilla is the same." <- that isnt insane per se! I agree to that statement and would add, it depends on the personal point of view to it.
 

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To give a definitive answer to the above discussion.

Femdom doesn't specify any kinks, so it also doesn't specify whether it's vanilla, hardcore, or anything in-between. It's simply an indication that the female is dominant.

Some examples of vanilla femdom are: Amazon sex position, massaging feet, body worship, ... . Even though some might prefer more humiliation when thinking about femdom, everyone is different.
 

NeoKilua

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To give a definitive answer to the above discussion.

Femdom doesn't specify any kinks, so it also doesn't specify whether it's vanilla, hardcore, or anything in-between. It's simply an indication that the female is dominant.

Some examples of vanilla femdom are: Amazon sex position, massaging feet, body worship, ... . Even though some might prefer more humiliation when thinking about femdom, everyone is different.
Thank you for answering the only thing i actually wanted which is types of vanilla femdom outside of facesitting pussylicking etc and thanks for confirming gentle femdom is the vanilla version.
That all i wanted which can be found in vanilla
 

NeoKilua

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I kinda agree and also not agree to that.
There is no specific "line" inbetween vanilla and femdom if you want to put it that way. So its a sometimes yes that depends.
But can also not be true, because what is vanilla then, as you also rightfully asked with some examples, like handcuffs?
I know people who would say that ass licking isnt vanilla, but i also know persons who would say handcuffs are femdom/dom.

To make this topic short, because i dont think that we may find a definitive awnser that would fit all:
I would say it depends on each personal perspective, or should i better say, what one would say is vanilla and what not.

tldr: " You can Also say gentle femdom and vanilla is the same." <- that isnt insane per se! I agree to that statement and would add, it depends on the personal point of view to it.
Also wasn't talking about femdom in general just gentle femdom
 

Bluesent

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Thank you for answering the only thing i actually wanted which is types of vanilla femdom outside of facesitting pussylicking etc and thanks for confirming gentle femdom is the vanilla version.
That all i wanted which can be found in vanilla
to add on to the other users post some of the more vanilla people can consider cowgirl position femdom, i personally think most things can be moved into a "soft femdom" place specifically from the dialog. even just plain old missionary can be soft femdom if done a specific way - the woman using her legs to control pace / forbidding you to finish.

the dialog in my eyes is one of the most important things in femdom, probebly even more important in "gentle femdom"
 
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NeoKilua

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to add on to the other users post some of the more vanilla people can consider cowgirl position femdom, i personally think most things can be moved into a "soft femdom" place specifically from the dialog. even just plain old missionary can be soft femdom if done a specific way - the woman using her legs to control pace / forbidding you to finish.

the dialog in my eyes is one of the most important things in femdom, probebly even more important in "gentle femdom"
Yes thank you too i also agree with you on what you daid depending on the dialogue.

they can be femdom eg reverse rape or forced fucking eg mc shouting get off while being fucked counts.
Eg shot in the dark and amnesia.
 

NeoKilua

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What i noticed in femdom or femdom focoused path is outside japanese games or my best deal or amnesia, the lack of blonde haired dommes is crazy 99 percent is black and brown.

Why people cant think a blonde can't dominate which is stupid

And now these days any femdom character it always a teacher or headmaster what happend to being dommed by students your sisters family etc for any new game it like this

Btw sister femdom is the best and hottest ones no competition.
 

Bluesent

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What i noticed in femdom or femdom focoused path is outside japanese games or my best deal or amnesia, the lack of blonde haired dommes is crazy 99 percent is black and brown.

Why people cant think a blonde can't dominate which is stupid

And now these days any femdom character it always a teacher or headmaster what happend to being dommed by students your sisters family etc for any new game it like this

Btw sister femdom is the best and hottest ones no competition.
honestly i love the "people in power" femdom genre teachers/headmasters/bosses etc, but my favourite is similar to the student thing you mentioned. i have a SEVERE weakness to maid femdom or someone who is "subservient" to the MC flipping the table and taking charge.

on the blonde thing, i think its mostly due to aesthetics' darker colors are generally seen as more dominant, most femdom games tend to have red/black hair.
 

NeoKilua

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honestly i love the "people in power" femdom genre teachers/headmasters/bosses etc, but my favourite is similar to the student thing you mentioned. i have a SEVERE weakness to maid femdom or someone who is "subservient" to the MC flipping the table and taking charge.

on the blonde thing, i think its mostly due to aesthetics' darker colors are generally seen as more dominant, most femdom games tend to have red/black hair.
Maid femdom don't any game that has it you have a list one for all devices? .

and the best one is still estate dominate,could of been the best femdom game ever, to bad it abandoned.

The reason im not fond on teacher ones cause it takes a longer time to get femdom scenes than a student or family.

With students and family u see them all the time increasing chances of femdom.

My favourite teacher femdom is from milfy city
 

Holefiller

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I like gentle femdom, but it's sort of limited in terms of what stories you can tell with it. The best parts of a femdom story come when the sub resists or seeks independence. If the gentle domme persists and disciplines/gaslights her sub, its not gentle femdom anymore. If the gentle domme gives in and spoils the sub, its not real femdom anymore. As a result, most gentle femdom stories are (often literally) one note memes that involve the sub completely submitting from jump and never taking issue with anything.

I think there's a way you can do it right- you could have an arc where the sub takes issue with the gentle domme, leaves, realizes his need for her outside of the relationship, and finally comes crawling back. The domme gets to have a smug "I told you so" moment without breaking her gentle demeanor. I've seen stories that have similar arcs, although they're usually not gentle.
 

baxtus

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I like gentle femdom, but it's sort of limited in terms of what stories you can tell with it. The best parts of a femdom story come when the sub resists or seeks independence. If the gentle domme persists and disciplines/gaslights her sub, its not gentle femdom anymore. If the gentle domme gives in and spoils the sub, its not real femdom anymore. As a result, most gentle femdom stories are (often literally) one note memes that involve the sub completely submitting from jump and never taking issue with anything.

I think there's a way you can do it right- you could have an arc where the sub takes issue with the gentle domme, leaves, realizes his need for her outside of the relationship, and finally comes crawling back. The domme gets to have a smug "I told you so" moment without breaking her gentle demeanor. I've seen stories that have similar arcs, although they're usually not gentle.
Why does the sub need to resist or seek independence? For example, if my wife started taking the dominant role in our relationship, but continued to treat me in the same loving way she does now, and still respected me and my needs, and still sought my consent/agreement, why would I need to resist or seek independence?
 
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