This isn't just limited to video games, but the kink community in general online and in real life. It's just a difficult kink to define and granularize, because it's so individuated and subject to each partnership's dynamics...and in a larger community in which there are as many takes on consent and the boundaries of acceptance as there are practitioners. And honestly, this particular form of power exchange/non-monogamy is definitely on the "edge play" side of the safety and consent spectrum.The thing that bugs me a lot is that F95 stores all non-monogamy relationships into "NTR", which specifially means non-consensual...
It's not something to approach willy-nilly, and the bottom line is much of it is controversial for good reason...but, rarely for the same reasons you'll find on a porn game forum, where concepts like consent tend to be poorly-understood. Which is what I was pointing out -- cuckolding can and often does involve dubcon and CNC, which is why I consider it edge play, but there's still a difference between consensual roleplay and consent violation.