I totally agree with that.
In the full game, avoiding Zoe will "anger" her, increasing her dominant stats (like when you avoid cooking when she asked you to). Through the dominant stats, there will be extra events that will lead to some kind of "game over".
Once there is that, it will be up to the player to act to avoid this, which should give more purpose to the whole thing.
In a femdom relationship (a real one I mean), it's not really "the girl entertains the show and the guy sits, obeys and enjoys it". It has to go both ways. Asking to lick Zoe because you know she expects it from you is part of what is a femdom relationship.
That's why I don't want the game to fully unfold just by being passive. There are plenty of other femdom games for that already
But I'll deal with this issue nonetheless and make it more natural for the player to be expected to act.