Finally an other guy like me who doesn't have the foot fetish but like femdom !
But it is normal to have the foot fetish in femdom game, it is a form of domination.
I think we're confusing BDSM with domination?
Like, sadism/masochism aren't required for submisive/dominant activity.
It's akin to claiming cock'n'ball torture is common because it's a form of domination.
Like, yes, you could argue stomping on somebody's balls is a form of domination as you degrade them...
But the fact is, it's not the foot fetish nor the CBT that makes the act dominant; it's the words and teasing behind them.
Proper domination is a
psychological affair, not a physically sadistic one... Which IMO is kinda low-brau and low-effort.
Anybody can kick you in the junk and call you a piece of shit, but that's only really going to appeal to folks that like that very narrow brand of
"dominance". Like... Foot fetish is a big deal for some, but for many it's just about as cringe as CBT or sissification.