Yeah, even me being into femdom, had a hard time having to let go of Daisy to choose Dahlia when that scene came. I think Daisy is probably the hottest character in the game from looks alone, so making them mutually exclusive definitely didn't benefit Dahlia.
But as you said, I doubt how quickly the update is leaked has anything to do with how many people are waiting for it, and more with whatever criteria the patrons who have access to it use to decide it's time to share it with their less wealthy fellow gentlemen of culture.
If any of them is reading this, hopefully they will share it soon.
