for all folks out there who wants a clear argument to use against "harem" crybabies

Echoesinthedarkness

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just bookmark this thread (https://f95zone.to/threads/wicked-ways-v0-1-lewdsmeister.174633/). honestly its so funny how the dev was forced to change his plans IN A MATTER OF SINGLE DISCUSSION PAGE. I kid you not, the guy got 3-4 responses about how he ruins his project, and last message he apologizes for even suggesting the possibility of future sharing content in his game lmao.
 

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And where exactly is the "clear argument to use against harem crybabies" ?
I mean, there isn't even harem crybabies in the thread. The only crybaby I see is a NTR fan, and he's not in the game thread...

Instead there's just one member gently asking for a precision, and Uthuriel giving a point of view based on his experience regarding story building and previous games history. Then come the dev, that probably weighted the arguments, who conclude that he'll finally not consider the possibility to include something that, anyway, he had no real intention to add in first place.
 

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And where exactly is the "clear argument to use against harem crybabies" ?
I mean, there isn't even harem crybabies in the thread. The only crybaby I see is a NTR fan, and he's not in the game thread...

Instead there's just one member gently asking for a precision, and Uthuriel giving a point of view based on his experience regarding story building and previous games history. Then come the dev, that probably weighted the arguments, who conclude that he'll finally not consider the possibility to include something that, anyway, he had no real intention to add in first place.
oh yeah, based on his experience? well, based on my experience I'll say the guy in question (Uthuriel) first posted emotionally heavy message "gg dev you fucked your game hard" then when he saw that dev is actually on the fence to backtrack on his initial plans (yes initially he considered adding sharing, he wrote it himself) after first responces, pushed him further, also forcing him to make decision on the spot "if you want support, the tags have to be clear from beginning".
now to argument in question - all I'm saying is that it is perfect example that goes to show how guys like Uthuriel hawking over new threads to try to abuse new devs. they arent discussing anything about the game itself, its always "sharing/swinging=game bad you ruining it". at this point its hard to believe all this fuss is about tag itself rather than overpowering a person (devs in our case) to bend them over backwards.
btw its astounding how you got the narrative twisted to suit your needs, "dev wasnt going to add it", "points based on his experience" - this one is the best honestly experience of what, bullying devs what kind of experience he may possess lmao, then the dev backtracking on his decision in a matter of couple of posts "probably weighted arguments". sure thing buddy
 

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The whole pushing from either side will never end, oh and yeah I recently came across direct evidence the NTR side does it as well (didn't want to believe it but when given direct evidence I can hold my hand up and change my previous views):

[I was gonna post an image here but thought better of it, I'm learning]

Ideally what needs to happen is a simple process:

* Dev creates a game how they envision it and it gets posted.
* Someone asks the question politely about how set in stone sharing, ntr etc will be in game or added at a later time. (Without any additional personal opinions either way)
* The dev has a firm clear vision and backbone and states publically if they want to keep it in and that's final or that they wont put it in at all and that's final, not adding it down the line to piss people off. None of this "Well we'll see how it goes bullshit" or "I'll look at the money and see how it goes". No put a clear and firm stance.
* Both sides take this declaration as final, no immature facepalms, no asinine comments like your 1 guy on a porn forum opinion means anything (that includes what I'm writing here, don't expect anyone to actually read or care what I wrote here, and personally I (and you) shouldn't get hung up about it) and just WALK AWAY from the thread, block or ignore if you must.
* Then there are games that suit one party and games to suit the other and never shall they need to meet or antagonise each other.

The ultimate problem is that online, and particularity online social media and forums tend to lend a kind of invincibility to people, especially behind a mask and keyboard where people can't be punched out for their comments has let to a massive EGO drive and now you have the equivalent of the fucking vending machine repairman thinking his opinion means shit to the surgeon about to do a heart bypass. Time and a place, common decency and tact I would say but not gonna happen I guess, everyone had to give their two cents and we have to accept that.
 

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It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

The same few ntr-haters ask about ntr every time a new harem thread shows up, the dev assumes they are asking because they want it so they try to be respectful and not deny with an iron fist even if they were never planning it in the first place.

However the ones asking for it were never interested in ntr, they were just looking for a reason to attack the dev if the answer wasn't an absolute no, and that's what often ends up happening, so silly.
 

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The whole pushing from either side will never end, oh and yeah I recently came across direct evidence the NTR side does it as well (didn't want to believe it but when given direct evidence I can hold my hand up and change my previous views):

[I was gonna post an image here but thought better of it, I'm learning]

Ideally what needs to happen is a simple process:

* Dev creates a game how they envision it and it gets posted.
* Someone asks the question politely about how set in stone sharing, ntr etc will be in game or added at a later time. (Without any additional personal opinions either way)
* The dev has a firm clear vision and backbone and states publically if they want to keep it in and that's final or that they wont put it in at all and that's final, not adding it down the line to piss people off. None of this "Well we'll see how it goes bullshit" or "I'll look at the money and see how it goes". No put a clear and firm stance.
* Both sides take this declaration as final, no immature facepalms, no asinine comments like your 1 guy on a porn forum opinion means anything (that includes what I'm writing here, don't expect anyone to actually read or care what I wrote here, and personally I (and you) shouldn't get hung up about it) and just WALK AWAY from the thread, block or ignore if you must.
* Then there are games that suit one party and games to suit the other and never shall they need to meet or antagonise each other.

The ultimate problem is that online, and particularity online social media and forums tend to lend a kind of invincibility to people, especially behind a mask and keyboard where people can't be punched out for their comments has let to a massive EGO drive and now you have the equivalent of the fucking vending machine repairman thinking his opinion means shit to the surgeon about to do a heart bypass. Time and a place, common decency and tact I would say but not gonna happen I guess, everyone had to give their two cents and we have to accept that.
I must say I agree 100% with what you said
though also, where the hell have you found a guy trying to strong arm a dev into adding more sharing lol
 
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devs should have the creative freedom to do whatever the fuck they want with their own creation and not asking for approval. IMHO if devs would have their minds out of their wallets and and stop trying to win a nonexistent popularity contest I'm sure we would get more game, better game that would dare to try new things.

who the fuck care if they are not happy about something ? honestly who the fuck care ?
 
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just bookmark this thread (https://f95zone.to/threads/wicked-ways-v0-1-lewdsmeister.174633/). honestly its so funny how the dev was forced to change his plans IN A MATTER OF SINGLE DISCUSSION PAGE. I kid you not, the guy got 3-4 responses about how he ruins his project, and last message he apologizes for even suggesting the possibility of future sharing content in his game lmao.
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This OP has to be the fail post of the day.

Reeeing about a dev being forced to change his plans because of satirical posts.

He clearly didn't read the dev's comments or doesn't understand the words....

The dev said he never had plans for that. Let me give you a clue, it's in the " I'm not thinking of including " part.

He was not convinced to change his mind about anything. Hell from the phrasing you can see he thought the guy wanted it, which he didn't.
 
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The dev said he never had plans for that. Let me give you a clue, it's in the " I'm not thinking of including " part.
"And for NTR/Swinging/Sharing, I'm not thinking of including that in the near future but if the majority of players want them then it might change. I hope you understand" - you know, you might want to provide full quote. that way you wont look like complete moron who relies on people not bothering to double check his sources lol. like what kind of argument is that when people just read one sentence and they are ready to trump your agenda? think about it :WeSmart:
 

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Yeez bro talk about comprehension failure.... please point out anywhere in that sentence he said he was going to do it and changed his mind. You can't because it's not what he said.

Instead of taking your loss, you doubled down and still look like a fool.

"And for NTR/Swinging/Sharing, I'm not thinking of including that in the near future " He's not thinking of adding it.

"but if the majority of players want them then it might change. " He's still not adding it, but might if there is enough players wanting, note the use of the word might. That does not mean it would happen for certain but is a potential possibility. It may or may not.

"I hope you understand" He hoped the person he replied to because it seemed like he thought that guy wanted it, which he didn't.

So yeah, I didn't need to post the full quote because it didn't change anything.
 
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"And for NTR/Swinging/Sharing, I'm not thinking of including that in the near future " He's not thinking of adding it.
he is not thinking of adding it IN THE NEAR FUTURE. read with me IN. THE. NEAR. FUTURE. now, full sentence IN THE NEAR FUTURE. see, not so hard. then, he thinks it might be changed if people express their desire for such content. well, what we have here, obviously I would want to hear other people's thoughts, but keeping in mind we are talking about 0.1 version all that ambiguity gives whole sentence a meaning which is quite far from absolutely set in stone, distinctive "I'm not thinking about it". so yeah, poor move from your side, doubling down on your selective blindness and handwavium
 

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Are we witnessing an attempt to break the deepest drilling record ?
Idk dude, I think I answered your initial message in full, point after point; instead of doing the same you replied with "CaN yOu EvEn rEaD" and disappeared. now, another guy opposed me and you decided to get into this debate again, this time as a cheerleader I guess? decided to provide much needed support with your irresistable one-liners? either way, not a good look
also, if anything, I want you to know - the only reason I'll dig myself deeper is just to be closer to you :giggle:
 
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Only crying here is you because you not getting your cuck content fix you want buddy.

just take your L and move on to another game that got what you like instead of making a crying thread.
 
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