Yeah, its the only explanation that I could think of that would make it so an avatar was alive in the opening. It kind of makes sense in the lore, as neither the pure spirit (the avatar) or the corruption spirit (the dark avatar) can be destroyed for good, at least not while the other exists.I'm not sure about that but it's an interesting theory but also has problems. The Dark Avatar was in Season 2 of Korra and was wiped out I guess. I guess because I dropped LoK pretty early since I found the writing and characters to be dreadful. They really needed to bring Aaron Ehasz back but I digress. If it wasn't wiped out then yeah, the dark avatar spirit could have moved to someone else and we can have it so Korra was in her 30's or so so that the player character had enough time to grow up to be the lovable lazy ass that he is. This speculation is far more interesting than the usual help questions for sure.
This is all more speculation: It could also make sense how the PC lived to 18 without any bending, as the dark avatar was weakened after the battle, almost destroyed. Water was the first element he learned, due to him previously being Unalaq, a water bender in his past life, as this seemed to be the easiest for the PC to learn. He then gained the ability to learn the other elements from possessing aang's body, as he adjusted to what the host could do. Next as fire was the element Aang learnt last the spirit sped up the process by possessing zuko or the thief both likely firebenders, this was needed as Aang learnt firebending from Zuko before the final battle. Next it's back to Aang, as he now has some earth bending knowledge, and so he can learn from Toph at the time the real Aang would have done. Finally you would inhabit an air bender, Korra? Meelo? Kai? Or another unnamed acolyte with bending.
I feel the dark avatar would be a water bender in every reincarnation as the first dark avatar only new withstanding, so the spirit, possibly even vaatu in disguise as the painted lady is gearing the PC up to be a real dark avatar with all four elements, as he almost defeated Korra, a fully realised avatar with withstanding and dark avatar power alone.