Thank you so much. You clarify things so well. So, I guess I'll have to put that tag in the 2nd next update.Yes, I once researched the topic in detail. Because this always leads to arguments. Actually Jeff Steel, one of MrDots development team, helped me a lot with it. Because I didn't understand requirement 3 either, in the past. Originally I even registered in this forum to settle this dispute. I've since given up on that.
In this forum, NTR is generally explained incorrectly, as I have since found out. Here it is already considered an NTR if a LI has sex with someone other than the MC. I have no idea who wrote this nonsense. But unfortunately many things are strange in this forum.
I strongly assume that facepalms and teachings will be hailing here again. But I'm used to that. That has not bothered me for a long time. Anyone who really researches it on his/her won in detail will quickly notice that I am very well right.
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I prefer to use the true definition of the NTR, which is Netori and Netorare. The letters NTR come from these words, they are no coincidence. But i have given up explaining this to the forum. People simple don't want to know
Netorare: The partner is being stolen away from someone in a steady relationship. (being the victim of NTR)
Netori: Someone him/herself steals the partner from someone in steady realtionship (being the culpit of NTR)
In essence, both things are the same. They differed only in the victim-perpetrator perspective. The MC does not necessarily have to be the culpit or victim. The gender also plays no role. It can be anyone in the game , provided that the prerequisites are met.
In order for NTR to really be NTR, 3 prerequisites must be met:
1. there must be a relationship. Relationship is enough, it doesn't necessarily have to be a marriage. On the other hand, LI alone is not enough
2. cheating has to take place. At least one of the partners must have sex with someone else without the partner's consent. If the partner agrees, it is sharing, not cheating
3. the cheater needs to be "taken away" from the raltionship
The third point is the most difficult. And also the most misunderstood: what does "being taken away" mean?
That means a lot. It can be the actual breakup of the relationship. Or else, the relationship is still going, but there is no more sex because the cheater takes refuge in the arms of the lover. In any case, the fraud must have a negative effect on the actual relationship.
Now to your question:
If a woman who actually belongs to her parents and is only allowed to have sex with their consent, but then lets herself be seduced and finds herself in the arms of someone else, I would actually be called "being taken away". And so all the requirements are met: that is actually NTR.
As I have discussed with Alley_Cat , there is a cancelled event in the past that takes a good part of the free pass actually. I've decided to put it back. That event can be called " Runaway bride" or something. Yes title is a spoiler I am sorry. The bride parents are traditional ones. Father, Hindu, and mother, Buddhist. Generally speaking, those three steps includes permission from guardian, parent, and finally herself. Without those 3 steps, the girl has still owned by her parents due to mother's religion. It is sinful thing to have a sexual things with other without fulfilling those things. So, if a bride runs away, the both side of the parents will be harassed by the soecity. Parent is having karma. I will leave those kind of discussion here.
So, there is NTR-ed on both side, I guess.
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