I’ll chalk that up to my not understanding trans people in general, then.
I don’t know about that, because there are plenty of people on this site who identify as straight and still engage in content with hermaphrodites and 100% pre-op transwomen, or even femboys. (As a straight man myself, I don’t understand this either).
That’s another one I don’t get. If you respect gender identity at all, then don’t you have to accept that anyone who says they’re a man is a man? So you’re having sex with someone who tells you straight up that he’s a man, while fully acknowledging that he’s a man? You do you (no judgment), but that’s an instant no from me, regardless of what the guy actually looks like. I don’t see how that has anything to do with ciswomen dressing up in a football uniform (women’s football is a thing, too, and it could just be a thing about guys liking when their girlfriends wears their clothes), or even alt girls (who, while they might have short hair or androgynous clothing, can still look quite feminine).