The Discord's moderation team does not have a monopoly on Futadom lore. If anyone does, it's Xalimata, the guy who made the original caption that spurred the Futadom Caption boom in 2015ish. Xalimata, you might be aware, is also listed as a team member for this game. So if anyone's ignoring reference, it probably isn't the FDW devs - and even if they are, who cares? The game has its own continuity that doesn't depend at all on the Discord server's worldbuilding discussion threads. That's not ignoring reference, it's writing your own story in your own game.
Which isn't to say there's anything wrong with the worldbuilding provided on the Discord server. I just don't think it's the final word in Futadom.