As woman i want to see less rape, blackmail, prostitution, ... and stop corrupting before they turn into free for all sluts.
As lesbian i want to see more dickfree games/harems/routes.
As player i want to have more choices that matter, not only view or skip scenes, it should impact the story (=more difference in routes, not only who awaits you in bed).
As thinking person i want to have different storys, not 1000 remakes, covers or otherwise identical plots (like coming home after years, seducing your family and get rid of the guys, or a family member brings home an asshole who trys to dominate the whole family and you either submit to it or fight it with its own methods, or start as shy innocent girl and get corrupted into a cumslut or end in an endless rape-cycle, ...) because they get even more boring over time than they were at the first time.
As human being i want to have the option to kill annoying characters with varius gore levels instead of wasting hours to get rid of them or having to deal with them until the end.
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Adding everything up, i want either the true nightmare of every developer:
1. Start the game by selecting your gender....
1a. and for really ambitionous devs: choose your personality (a few predefined basics and working with choice-based earned points to change during gameplay and other charas/dialogues reacting to your personality)
2. Develop your sexuality yourself and dont start as straight, bi or homosexual protagonist, you choose who and what you befriend, date, fuck, ignore or fend off
3. Fully optional kinks and none from the start. Discover them from the people you interact with and choose if you want to try them, decide if you like them...
3a. and for really ambitionous devs: if you try to get other charas to try them too. (would be a megaton of extra work)
4. An interesting storyline/setting that only care about the plot, not about who you fuck in your free time or what you are into.
5. Modding support to add more charas you can have fun with in your free time without influencing the storyline and destroying the devs vision.
...to make it short, a sandbox game with really free choices
Or more of the rare stuff, maybe something really new...but in every case, no unavoidable stuff aside from the main story...nearly every game here has the same thing in common: The main story is mostly based on sex or progress through sex and that gets annoying. I have a really high sexdrive and give a shit about society norms, religious propaganda and anything else that try to suppress or force me, but even i split sex and the rest of life. Thats why i think it would be better to seperate the storyline from the sexlife instead of making it the only focus.