I personally don't know any game, that is really comparable to "Our Red Strings", but there are some game, where the girls have a strong agenda of their own.
Games I think might be interesting for females might be:
https://f95zone.to/threads/good-girl-gone-bad-v1-2-jasmin-dlc-eva-kiss.2633/ - the first game of EvaKiss. Has a strong female MC with lots of possibilities for character development.
https://f95zone.to/threads/sunville-v0-7beta3-feierflei.86617/ - A group of females in a world with 90% female population enjoying life, exhibitionism and lesbian sex.
All games of Date Ariane (
https://f95zone.to/sam/latest_alpha/#/cat=games/page=1/creator=Dateariane) - It's all about dating a woman, called Ariane. If you get far enough, you get some quite good exhibitionism content and also some interesting sex scenes. (Some of those games, e.g. Date Ariane and Ariane in Paradise are actually playable from female and male perspective. The male perspective is here straigt and the female perspective a lesbian one.)
https://f95zone.to/threads/the-adventurous-couple-tacos-part-3-mircom3d.7192/ - it's about a swinging couple
https://f95zone.to/threads/triangle-v1-0-neverlucky.18909/ - a short VN about a triangle love story (has as far, as I remember not that much choices)
I reckon the following 3 games are also quite female friendly, according to the comments, but I didn't play them too deeply:
https://f95zone.to/threads/light-of-my-life-ch-6-v0-6-4-naughty-road.29628/
https://f95zone.to/threads/leap-of-faith-ch-8-driftygames.48734/
https://f95zone.to/threads/say-it-again-v1-0-0-gaerax.83116/