txe320

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and yeah theres a search function, but honestly, I apologise if its not a ne thing but I dont think people should have to research their comments
To be fair, that's exactly why it's here and basically in the forum rules if I remember correctly.:ROFLMAO:
 
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Gafurint2

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I'm not an expert on the subject, but pretty sure that in some places, arranged marriages like that is more like the husband who had a deal with the parents of the bride for the said marriage.

So, basically he IS a jerk who paid money (or businesses or whatever) to have her as his wife without her consent.
I know but I have personal acknowledgement (not specific personal experience) of this (friends not myself that have experienced) - Men tend to get more lea-way but really not by that much - assuming that the guy is in control of this as opposed to his parents (as with hers) is unlikely at best
 

Gafurint2

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The marriage tends to be set up solely beteen the parents for a whole host of possible reasons, but while males are given a little more freedom, its still fairly damn heavily pressed
 

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To be fair, that's exactly why it's here and basically in the forum rules if I remember correctly.:ROFLMAO:
I'm pretty sure that the forum rules are a little limited here - not finding a specific relevant post isnt quite the same as 'I didnt realise there was a rule against this'
 

whatone

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Edit: and step-grandfather.
fixed it for you ;)

n.b. To be a "step" relative, he needs to be married (after their birth) to the corresponding blood relative.
AFAIK, step-siblings & step-cousins are the only ones that are inherited titles.
Step-Father is married to your Mother, step-Uncle is married to your Aunt, step-Grandfather is married to your Grandmother.
So he's indisputably not anyone's "step" anything, yet.

But he's never going to be Kat's "Grandfather", it's literally impossible. He can only become her step-Grandfather, by marrying Nana.
Here's hoping!
 
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Reniere

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fixed it for you ;)

n.b. To be a "step" relative, he needs to be married (after their birth) to the corresponding blood relative.
Step-Father is married to your Mother, step-Uncle is married to your Aunt, step-Grandfather is married to your Grandmother.
So he's indisputably not anyone's "step" anything, yet.

But he's never going to be Kat's "Grandfather", it's literally impossible. He can only become her step-Grandfather, by marrying Nana.
Here's hoping!
Unless we follow the good old "House Married rule" lol
Even tho i think most hispanic people go by that rule lol
 
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