I prefer choice. I "whine" personally when choice is not given. If it's an exhibition focused game, then leave that as the default choice, but give those who want the sex that option too in the end. Don't like the sex, stick with exhibition. Don't like pure exhibition then choose that option. Best of both worlds. It's more annoying when people try to gatekeep and then resort to telling others that they're just whining when both parties could be have an option of being happy.
It's really unfortunate the dev decided to not give the option in the end, and making me rethink buying. Oh well. It had such good potential and what I was holding out hope for before spending the money.