The "tone shift" you're noticing is me finding myself as a developer. This is my first attempt at doing anything you see. I've learned a lot since then, and it's natural for every writer to make a second draft of their work. Publishing a first draft is essentially unheard of. But I have never changed the direction of this game, I knew where it was going since I started developing it. I knew that to get you invested in the story, I had to make you care about the characters.The tone of this game is different from what it was in 2018/2019 when I last played. That time it was definitely more porn like. To me it looks like the developer shifted direction and I can understand why it is jarring for some people. I myself prefer the game as it was back in the day.
If you dont like the new direction, leave a review in a civilized manner - the developer looks at it. If the developer still wants to continue developing the game with this new direction it is their choice. It is your choice to either suck it up and compromise or simply walk away. There are plenty of other games on this website. If you financially supported in the past then you need to understand that there is always a possibility that projects that are ongoing can change focus. You are sponsoring the continued development of the game the developer wants to make and not the one you want to make. If you are not comfortable with this, just dont pledge instead pay the one time buyer's fee once the game is completed if you want to show support. Pledging to an ongoing project always comes with risks and it is your job to assess these risks and decide if you are ok with it.
And there is the tone of your posts - calling something 'woke' immediately makes a lot of people (myself included) dismiss pretty much anything you have to say. Being rude on the forum is not going to change the way the game is being developed.
From my 5 years of being here, what seems to be most jarring to people is that this is a game with a lot of porn in it that isn't solely about the porn and focuses on the characters, story, and world. People play this game expecting porn, and this is something I'm keenly aware of and happy to provide. This is why I try to set expectations, but trolls will be trolls so lets try not to feed them.