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I have been looking for the same thing for a while. Glad to see others feeling the same way about romance and connections.

Anyway, a lot of the commenters seem to not get the feel we are going for I think. For example, Shota aside, summer and winter memories, disregarding the character affection meters, has no true affection. The kid just acts horny and the girls go "oh, what to do with you?" in a typical Japanese hentai manner and let him do whatever.

What I like is, even if there is some hurt feelings, understanding and care in the act. One of the best examples of this Game of Hearts and the sequel House of Hearts. There is a corruption route but even that doesn't disregard basic humane behavior. The MC is in a shitty situation but never takes it out on anyone. Does his best with the hand dealt to him and treats everyone with respect and affection. Both with his words and actions.

It is those two games that have driven me to this new obsession of mine actually. And I am desperately trying to find similar games. I hope you play them and enjoy them as I have. Then maybe you will get the same itch and help me find similar experiences.
 

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Thanks. Also on my list for a while. Heard that's a masterpiece, but somehow couldn't start it - there was always something to do before. Maybe because it's already finished and I know there won't be more, if I really like it.

I have been looking for the same thing for a while. Glad to see others feeling the same way about romance and connections.
There are many of us :)

Anyway, a lot of the commenters seem to not get the feel we are going for I think. For example, Shota aside, summer and winter memories, disregarding the character affection meters, has no true affection. The kid just acts horny and the girls go "oh, what to do with you?" in a typical Japanese hentai manner and let him do whatever.
Nothing can be perfect, but still, there are many valuable recommendations and I hope it'll last as a database not only for me :)

What I like is, even if there is some hurt feelings, understanding and care in the act. One of the best examples of this Game of Hearts and the sequel House of Hearts. There is a corruption route but even that doesn't disregard basic humane behavior. The MC is in a shitty situation but never takes it out on anyone. Does his best with the hand dealt to him and treats everyone with respect and affection. Both with his words and actions.
Nice! Loved Game of Hearts, one of the best games I played and it's based on my fav genre, netori. Good to know that sequel already started, missed it somehow, but it would be a matter of time before I'd open GoH thread to check what's going on and why there's no second part already.

It is those two games that have driven me to this new obsession of mine actually. And I am desperately trying to find similar games. I hope you play them and enjoy them as I have. Then maybe you will get the same itch and help me find similar experiences.
I think I could help a bit, but you need to precise it a lil bit as GoH is quite unique, didn't met any game that I could call a sister game. The only thing that comes to my mind is Hero Party Must Fall. It's a netori harem game with MC corrupting pure women that are connected to title hero. It's based on very deep relationships and you can expect a lot of bonding and corruption. I think I didn't play any game that have more bonding and deep talks than in HPMF. MC is also in a tough situation and he definetely isn't a bad guy deep in heart, but don't want to spoil anything. But be awared as there's sissification later. I don't remember, if it's avoidable, but of course it's not MC who'll be changing.
There's also Cosy Cafe. Not that similar to GoH, it's not so "dark", have no netori (you can optionally consider Hannah situation as netori), and there's only slight corruption, but it's harem game with very deep relationships and you can really feel connection with LIs. I think I can call it my top1 game, but definetely top3. The only flaw is that updates are quite rare, I think 2-3 per year only, but there's still content for 15-20 hours of gameplay already.
 

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I think I could help a bit, but you need to precise it a lil bit as GoH is quite unique, didn't met any game that I could call a sister game. The only thing that comes to my mind is Hero Party Must Fall. It's a netori harem game with MC corrupting pure women that are connected to title hero. It's based on very deep relationships and you can expect a lot of bonding and corruption. I think I didn't play any game that have more bonding and deep talks than in HPMF. MC is also in a tough situation and he definetely isn't a bad guy deep in heart, but don't want to spoil anything. But be awared as there's sissification later. I don't remember, if it's avoidable, but of course it's not MC who'll be changing.
There's also Cosy Cafe. Not that similar to GoH, it's not so "dark", have no netori (you can optionally consider Hannah situation as netori), and there's only slight corruption, but it's harem game with very deep relationships and you can really feel connection with LIs. I think I can call it my top1 game, but definetely top3. The only flaw is that updates are quite rare, I think 2-3 per year only, but there's still content for 15-20 hours of gameplay already.
Okay, I am glad you brought this up. See I haven't played all the games you mentioned in the OP but I have played Hero Party and Cosy Cafe. The title of the thread says "deep romantic" and I know HPMF is nothing but romantic. Like you said the MC isn't a bad guy deep inside, but his actions are certainly not affectionate. He manipulates everyone he interacts with and he doesn't treat them kindly either.

Cosy Cafe is definitely much better but I only played a third of it before I dropped it. Been a while so I don't remember exactly why but I remember feeling it wasn't very wholesome especially with the way the mc treated the loli asian girl? Again, don't remember very well.

Anyway, that's why you got me a bit confused with the disparity between the title and the games you mentioned in the OP. I might not have been clear in my first response but I love GoH and HoH is how the MC is intimate, caring, and very tender both physically and verbally with all the girls. And not in the sissy, simp, worship her feet kinda way. He is mature, been through a lot and creates this vibe of bittersweet serenity.

As you said sadly, GoH is quite unique. But basically what I want is mature wholesomeness, I guess you could call it. Nothing wrong with consensual rough sex and dirty talk but those games are the 99%. Now that GoH has shown me the light, I just can't help but be addicted lol.
 

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Okay, I am glad you brought this up. See I haven't played all the games you mentioned in the OP but I have played Hero Party and Cosy Cafe. The title of the thread says "deep romantic" and I know HPMF is nothing but romantic. Like you said the MC isn't a bad guy deep inside, but his actions are certainly not affectionate. He manipulates everyone he interacts with and he doesn't treat them kindly either.
I agree HPMF isn't romantic in the same sense as Cosy Cafe, but at some point it's building romantic relationships - remember long talks in bed and sharing emotions, fears, passion? This game isn't focused on romance, but IMO relationship that MC built with main three LIs became romantic in it own twisted way. Anyway, it's somehow similar to GoH, where MC also MUST corrupt main LI. The difference is that in HPMF MC don't have such strong power and is also facing much stronger characters, so the road of corruption is more harsh and needs darker approach.

Cosy Cafe is definitely much better but I only played a third of it before I dropped it. Been a while so I don't remember exactly why but I remember feeling it wasn't very wholesome especially with the way the mc treated the loli asian girl? Again, don't remember very well.
Well, if it comes to her, she was loving it and always asking for more ;) not sure at which point you dropped, because there was one drama, but its conclusion was very touching.

Anyway, that's why you got me a bit confused with the disparity between the title and the games you mentioned in the OP. I might not have been clear in my first response but I love GoH and HoH is how the MC is intimate, caring, and very tender both physically and verbally with all the girls. And not in the sissy, simp, worship her feet kinda way. He is mature, been through a lot and creates this vibe of bittersweet serenity.

As you said sadly, GoH is quite unique. But basically what I want is mature wholesomeness, I guess you could call it. Nothing wrong with consensual rough sex and dirty talk but those games are the 99%. Now that GoH has shown me the light, I just can't help but be addicted lol.
Hmmmm... I see now we have a lil bit different view of romanticness, but I think what you're looking for. Not sure, if there's a harem game that would be 100% good for you, if you dropped Cosy Cafe. You may try:

Single Again - You're playing mature MC who takes care of three (and more) girls and build romantic and deep relationships with them. However, many people criticize MC about his relationship with Abby, because it's quite annoying sometimes and his relationship with one other LI isn't always too colorful. It also have some small consensual punishments like anal plug or pushing some boundaries, but nothing drastic. This production is very far from perfection, but you may like it.

Midlife Crisis - It's abandoned, but there's quite long story about mature MC who's having relationships with (mostly) college girls. If I remember well it was quite wholesome with almost no tough topics (one LI had problems, but MC took care of her and I think younger daughter was somehow tsundere, so she acted like she don't want to do some things), but I played it most likely 1,5 year ago, so my memory could drop something.

The Nature of Magic - For now it seems quite wholesome, but I'm quite sure that it won't be later, when other LIs will get more show time.

I think for purely wholesome games you'll need to try non-harem positions as in harem there's usually at least one LI that needs more harsh approach. But I don't think I can help in that matter as literally 100% of my games (yep, just checked folder with saves) have multiple LIs.
 

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I agree HPMF isn't romantic in the same sense as Cosy Cafe, but at some point it's building romantic relationships - remember long talks in bed and sharing emotions, fears, passion? This game isn't focused on romance, but IMO relationship that MC built with main three LIs became romantic in it own twisted way. Anyway, it's somehow similar to GoH, where MC also MUST corrupt main LI. The difference is that in HPMF MC don't have such strong power and is also facing much stronger characters, so the road of corruption is more harsh and needs darker approach.
Oh yeah, I remember glimpses of this. He is definitely conflicted. I remember this strongly with the mom of the hero. Even though the MC treats her terribly, she makes him show a bit of vulnerability. Good game, I just wish it wasn't so rough in the sex scenes.

Well, if it comes to her, she was loving it and always asking for more ;) not sure at which point you dropped, because there was one drama, but its conclusion was very touching.
Maybe I should give it another chance. I did like the premise quite a bit. Thanks for the tip.
Hmmmm... I see now we have a lil bit different view of romanticness, but I think what you're looking for. Not sure, if there's a harem game that would be 100% good for you, if you dropped Cosy Cafe. You may try:
Interesting, what is romance for you personally then? I agree that harem isn't compatible with what I meant but GoH pulled it off quite well no? There are also small example in many games I have played along the years. Heck even in something like Summertime Saga, the mc is quite caring towards the blonde cheerleader who was a bitch to him at the start. Afterwards though, they have quite a mature relationship.

I will check the games you noted though, so thanks again.
 

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Interesting, what is romance for you personally then?
For me romance is a relationship between two people that contain romantic situations, intimacy and being very close emotionally. It can be shown in many ways, like having dinner together in romantic settings, but also by deep conversations at beach during sunset about living together and plans for future including sweet words or just deep talks about desires, plans, sharing emotions, etc, after sex. Last example is why I consider later part of HPMF as romantic. It's not romantic from beginning and it's definetely not wholesome romantic at any point, but for me it felt romantic in its own twisted way. It bring the same emotions and change that was made in characters added it extra flavour. They didn't have to become so close to MC, they could just use him to fight the curse, but instead we can say they fell in love and shared with him much deeper feelings than with their beloved Hero.. Anyway, romance for me will not always be lovey-dovey and not always will be only bright. Take GoH as an example. It's about homewrecker who's destroing relationship based on love, but in financial crisis. He's using magic, money and tricks to corrupt wife devoted to her husband. He's sweet for her and sincerely don't want to hurt her, but let the truth be, if not a financial situation and his magic, she wouldn't even kiss him in cheek.
 

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For me romance is a relationship between two people that contain romantic situations, intimacy and being very close emotionally. It can be shown in many ways, like having dinner together in romantic settings, but also by deep conversations at beach during sunset about living together and plans for future including sweet words or just deep talks about desires, plans, sharing emotions, etc, after sex.
Yeah I like the two keywords you used here. Intimacy (physical) and emotional closeness. I agree with those full-heartedly. Do the games you mentioned have these tenets? The ones I haven't played I mean.

I also like what you said about GoH. You are correct in saying he has a lot of "cheat" advantages he has in his endeavor. But that is also why I like it so much. Despite it all, he still tender and caring both physically and emotionally. I guess that is what I really seek. No matter how dark the story, or not, I want to see some kindness in the act. I feel like most games on the site even the top rated ones focus on just the pleasure and the porn-like depiction of sex, you know?

Sorry if what I am saying comes off as corny and pretentious.
 

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This thread is very interesting, and I'm now interested to look for similar games too. Thanks for bringing up this topic. Harem is a genre where sex and women are way too easy, so the bar for "deep relationships" in a harem game is low or subjective. I have some games that might fit the bill but I'm not sure if they count as harem. Now that I think about it... I have to ask, is pursuing multiple women considered harem also? Or does harem refer to women knowingly sharing one guy? I have seen both situations being tagged as harem.
 
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Yeah I like the two keywords you used here. Intimacy (physical) and emotional closeness. I agree with those full-heartedly. Do the games you mentioned have these tenets? The ones I haven't played I mean.
Every mentioned by me game in this topic have more or less of emotional closeness and intimacy, but in some of them it appear after a long time and after many obstacles, darker events or netori (HPMF, The Higher Society, That New Teacher). Also it's not always with every character. For example TNT is netori based and some characters are quick fuck and some are on deeper emotional level. It may give a feeling that game isn't too romantic, because not enough "air time" can be spared to specific LI, if there are many of them. Perfect example is DropOut saga which may be perfect after being finished, but it still contain a lot of deep personal and emotional relations, to not call everything of them relationships (yet). Big warning tho, MC here is a tough guy and problem saver with hero complex, so you should expect things like LIs being in very nasty situations including they being physically harmed (but not by MC).

I think the most vanilla titles would be: The Nature of Magic, Photo Hunt (with love paths of course), The Radiant and Single Again.

I think most of games mentioned in my OP you can find in my ratings. There may be some missing, because at the beginning I didn't bother about writing them, then first ones are quite poor as I just wanted to write only few most important sentences, but latest ones are much longer and based on notes written while playing, so I don't forget any of my thoughts.

Despite it all, he still tender and caring both physically and emotionally. I guess that is what I really seek. No matter how dark the story, or not, I want to see some kindness in the act.
Not sure, if you'll love it, but while reading this I immediately thought of Vae Victis - Khan: Conquer, Ravish, Breed. It may be good for you as some backup title, but maybe you'll find it good enough to start soon. MC is a conqueror and after conquering you can have dark/love route with LIs. At love route you'll have a chance to better know all of them, but don't expect too much lovey-dovey stuff.

I feel like most games on the site even the top rated ones focus on just the pleasure and the porn-like depiction of sex, you know?
Well. These are porn games after all :p most of people here wants just good fuck with SOME story and devs want to earn money, so they need to follow the trends. However, while looking for new titles I found some games with purely wholesome descriptions, but I'm not really a fan of pure and vanilla games, I need things to be spiced at least a bit.

Thanks for bringing up this topic
Glad you like it :)

I have some games that might fit the bill but I'm not sure if they count as harem. Now that I think about it... I have to ask, is pursuing multiple women considered harem also? Or does harem refer to women knowingly sharing one guy? I have seen both situations being tagged as harem.
Not sure, if there's any definition, but from my point of view, typical harem is when LIs accept MC having other women and at some point of story they'll know each other or even live together. But there are games like Photo Hunt, where you can have all main LIs and only some of them know about each other, don't mind MC banging others, but there's even no smallest hint about they all living together with MC.

As for my taste, I accept as harem, every game with multiple LIs as long as there's no mutual exclusivity.
 
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This thread is very interesting, and I'm now interested to look for similar games too. Thanks for bringing up this topic. Harem is a genre where sex and women are way too easy, so the bar for "deep relationships" in a harem game is low or subjective. I have some games that might fit the bill but I'm not sure if they count as harem. Now that I think about it... I have to ask, is pursuing multiple women considered harem also? Or does harem refer to women knowingly sharing one guy? I have seen both situations being tagged as harem.
I am glad the discussion intrigued you. Please feel free to chime in and share the games you mentioned. For me it doesn't matter if there are a few or many girls. As long as the game allows me to pursue the girls it depicts as desirable (non-background characters). But I assume harem means the girls are aware of each other as otherwise it is cheating. But, yeah, I don't trust the tagging on the site to differentiate the nuance.
 

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I think the most vanilla titles would be: The Nature of Magic, Photo Hunt (with love paths of course), The Radiant and Single Again.
I see. I will focus on these as a start and go through the others if I feel brave. I am not strictly against non-vanilla stuff because trust me I have played a lot of these games over the years. It is just that I feel I have become a bit jaded I guess. And as I alluded to earlier, GoH just awakened something in me I feel. This new itch of comforting a hurt girl through emotions and headpats kinda way. Forget headpats, my new kink is holding the girls' cheeks and looking into their beautiful eyes lol.

But once again, this discussion has been very fruitful in my humble opinion. Learned a lot about what others think and myself as well.
 

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I'm really glad this thread helped more people than me :)

I am not strictly against non-vanilla stuff because trust me I have played a lot of these games over the years
One thing I forgotten to mention and is important. Three of these four games have relationships that are incest or may be considered as incest, which for some is very non-vanilla. Only The Nature of Magic is incest free. It's all in the tags, but I should mention it while recommending.
 

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Love of Magic, worth checking the dev's other works too
Tune in to the Show, it's more about gentle emotions and painful pasts than intense romance, but the LIs have pretty fleshed out characters despite valid criticism about the ease of the harem - it's kinda like a more emotional Talothral VN. The dev's single LI VNs are more emotional and romantic than his main VN though.

Vae Victis, that you mentioned, has a kind of emotional rawness and directness too, there's a strength the dialogs there that's hard to explain but easy to spot.

You're right. No mutually exclusive LIs. In spoiler however you can see post about branching story (werevolfes/vampires) and poll was about mutually exclusive scenes. I just don't want to be disappointed due to future dev ideas and there are many more games to play. All good people just in this topic gave me recommendations with 5 games added to my list, so it's a material for maybe even a month of playing :)
I don't follow the harem route in Eternum but I only know about 1 forced branch like that in the game, between the werewolves and vampires near Hollowbrook. The plot and LI impact is pretty limited, and the impact of different choices is pretty limited there, more about flavour text than about wildly different plot arcs. I can say it was definitely designed for the full harem route tho. It's 1 of the more emotionally impactful harem games too, more than pretty much anything else mentioned in here or in the OP except Vae Victis. Eternum's LIs are too eager to share, but unusually for harem games they do bleed.
 

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Love of Magic, worth checking the dev's other works too
Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts Jaike! Sadly, I am hesitant to try games that have too deep of a gameplay mechanic like Love of Magic. I play these games for the story. That's why I struggle with sandbox games a lot but tolerate them if the story is good enough. Love of Magic is a step beyond that in depth though.

Tune in to the Show, it's more about gentle emotions and painful pasts than intense romance, but the LIs have pretty fleshed out characters despite valid criticism about the ease of the harem - it's kinda like a more emotional Talothral VN. The dev's single LI VNs are more emotional and romantic than his main VN though.
I checked some of the recent reviews on this and they are quite damning but decided to download it regardless. Will give it a go. The premise does sound very flimsy though ngl. Hopefully the romantic interactions as you mentioned will serve distract me from the negatives.

As for the Eternum discussion you guys were having, I love the games this dev makes. Their previous one was great as well. They have a thing for cute mini animations like nodding and facial expressions. Although funny, sometimes they drag their comedy a bit though which is the only downside.

I can attest that the harem route in that game is pretty well done. And yes, all the girls are quite receptive to each other which is easy yes but I am grateful since I am allergic to drama.
 

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Hmmm. Some of them suggested that MC is using LIs only for sexual purposes and is treating them badly (imagined insults and rape). How does it really look? I can stand, if MC is crossing boundaries and is pushing LI to something by corrupting her by for example touching her in places when she's not clearly ready to be touched and only thinks about it, but if it comes with insults, degrading and girls are clearly saying NO, then I know it's not for me.

About age gap, I don't mind it and actually it's a bonus for me, if MC is mature and LIs are 18-21 years old.
Again, I am not that far in, so take what I will say with a grain of salt. Things might get a lot worse later. Also, I will get into a bit more detail while trying to not spoil much (but still slight spoilers).

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All in all, as far as H protagonists go and accounting for horror elements on the game, he really isn't that bad.
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