got it working after putting every setting to lowest and other off, but now it keeps freezing whenever i'm starting a new day, also a recommendation that i just personally don't like in the game rn, is the auto option, it looks weird ngl, the character goes down forward and everything clips or doesn't look good at all
When you start a new day, the scene reloads, but with a bit of cache. So it takes a little while to load, but not as long as at the beginning.
Regarding the auto function, a couple of tips. If you first insert the penis manually and then press auto, that selected object will remain selected. Otherwise, it will lock onto or insert whatever it finds in front of it.
Once in auto mode, you can continue modifying the initial distance (left click plus movement), rotation (right click plus movement), and height (left click and scroll) or speed with scroll.
All the movement is procedural; they aren't pre-recorded animations like in other games. Maybe that's why it seems strange to you, but that's what allows for the amount of movement.
I'm improving the acceleration curve, but it will take a little while.