Hmm, I know it is a rethorical question that does not expect an answer
, but I could give you an at least partial profile of a possible such man, for "practical" reasons
, though I can also tell you the same man, if she ends up doing stuff with someone who does not care so much about her feelings and just uses her, may sometime wonder if in the end it would not have been better that he actually took the opportunity, exactly because he actually cared about her.
The assumption of many is that a much older man must always and by definition have "predatory" intentions towards someone much younger, while a younger man will not have them - in reality there can be all kind of variations
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