Yes, I now understand that this is what I wrote, but this was not what I was thinking about or trying to say while I was writing it. This is why I didn't remember writing it this way any more.
I was thinking about the risks and more about Charlie's will to go through with all the difficulties of
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Lucy would probably take the risk, because she has no children of her own yet and she is a bit younger, too (not sure how much though)
You are right, I did write it this way and I apologize for not being clear about my thoughts there. It's sometimes difficult for me to express my thoughts in English.
Totally my fault, I get it. Sorry.